Aaron Kwok After Breakup: “I Have No Hate Or Resentment”
Aaron Kwok (郭富城) and Lynn Hung’s (熊黛林) breakup is now a reality, with Aaron speaking in the past tense about what had gone wrong in their relationship. Aaron said conclusively, “There’s no need to force things” and that he had “no regrets or resentment.”
Although Aaron and Lynn did not provide the actual reason for their breakup, they denied that it was due to a third party involvement. Tabloids claimed that Aaron was attracted to Christine Kuo (苟芸慧) and even introduced her to his friends, stirring Lynn’s jealousy. Yesterday, reports emerged that Lynn fell for a richer man and did not want to waste her time with Aaron, who did not want to get married.
At the Beijing International Film Festival today, Aaron was asked if Lynn had cheated in the relationship. Aaron answered, “Let’s talk about the movie [Conspirators 同謀] today okay?” But he added that rumors should not be trusted, “No one can be certain what had happened to the involved parties in a relationship. Turning ears into eyes are wrong. There’s a reason for each person’s decision. I have no hate or resentment.”
Last year, Aaron temporarily split with Lynn after she pushed too hard for marriage, but they quickly reconciled. Aaron hinted that his relationship with Lynn is now beyond repair. “There is no need to force things. You can change your perspective to send blessings.”
Leaving for South Korea last Friday, Lynn returned to Hong Kong today. At the airport, Lynn appeared downcast when reporters rushed over. Asked how she was feeling after the breakup, Lynn pointed to her throat and did not answer. She coughed a few times and indicated that she had fallen sick while in South Korea. However, in her Weibo yesterday, Lynn had already denied rumors that she broke up with Aaron due to another wealthy man.
Sources: Apple Daily, Apple Daily
““I Have No Hate Or Resentment””
Which translates to “She is over her sell by date so I need to change. She is no longer within my demographic when marriage was … shouted”
Hmm the title is as if she did wrong to him. Is that so?
And you’re aware of these details because … ?
I was there.
at Funn Lim:
hahhahaha that’s one funny answer!!
Funn,
“There’s a reason for each person’s decision. I have no hate or resentment.”
I read Aaron’s statement that Lynn may have decided to end the relationship after seeing no future (marriage) in sight.
Based on her interviews, Lynn always struck me as an insecure person. In the past, she was always dropping hints about her relationship with Aaron, although he was very clear that he didn’t want to talk about them publicly. She appeared to be constantly pushing for more public acknowledgement, which may be a sign of insecurity.
Christine Kuo may not be the third party, the recent buildup in rumors may have sparked an argument between Lynn and Aaron due to Lynn’s insecurity.
The “no hate or resentment” just implies that they couldn’t come to terms to an argument or differences in opinion, which ultimately led to their breakup.
Let’s not put the insecurity business all on Lynn’s shoulder. Any woman dating Aaron Kwok would feel insecure after so many years. Aaron is not on the same playing field as some of these other guys that have woman willing to not get married, see Nat Chan. Aaron is a hot commodity.
For the past few years, Aaron Kwok has been pretty good about keeping his rumors on the down low but the Christine Kuo was brewing too strong for Lynn to just move on.
IMO – there’s nothing more than a mere flirt from Christine and Aaron. At most, Christine’s friendliness may prompt the reporters to add a little spice. But in Lynn’s shoes, she may be on the fence about what to do with the relationship and I guess this “scandal” helped her pick a side.
Aaron probably wants to keep Lynn around if she didn’t publicly announce the break up but since she did – he’s not going to crawl back to her.
agree with pandamao. lynn’s insecurity is understandable as a woman since the rumour with christine is big and might have been the breaking point for lynn. aaron might think his playfulness and over friendly manners with christine are mere flirting and opening his options as an unmarried guy but a woman burdened by 7 long years of uncertainties such as lynn might think it’s time to step out.
Funn is right as I was saying all along with a mug like Aaron’s at his age, he can be scoring wayyyy better and younger tail. It was time for Aaron to change up anyways, this one was getting wayyy to serious.
Men always blame on women when they breakup
True, even when they are “wrong”. A female friend once said … “The jerk blamed me for not being able to forgive him.” 🙂
To be honest… I think part of the reason involved her father’s death. After you lose somebody that important to you, you change a bit of your perspective and you’re never really quite the same.
I agree with you Jack and that is what I think too. When you lose someone so dear to you, you know that life is short, fragile and unpredictable so you realize even more how precious time is. Therefore, Lynn just could not wait anymore because even if she got married now, her father will not be able to witness it.
ignore the fact that this story is about aaron and lyn. just the fact that 2 people have been together for 7 years and then separate. it’s sad and a waste of time. wished they had “we decide to separate due to mutual understanding” earlier.
People tend to have a hard time letting go of comfort. It’s so much easier to not have to accommodate all over again.
I’m glad things finally ended since it was looking like a break up was inevitable.
Remember Aaron’s “No One Can Change My Plans!” comment regarding marriage? Well, I guess Lynn has her own “plans” too. “Force” can be applied both ways. “Compromise” is what relationships are all about, not “man takes all, woman gives all”.
Lynn is “young” and beautiful. There is no need to spend more than 2 yrs (not to mention 7 yrs) on one man. When the “timing” is right, one “solid” year is enough for one man (as in Gallen Lo’s case).
Huhm HK male stars tend to enjoy single life as many years possible. Aaron is going to 49 and reachs to 50 yr old. When he will settle down?
It is not good if he has kid when older than 50 🙂 seems like break up is inavoidable due to his marriage plan denial. Women will work away if they see no future. No exception. If it has then it is false excuse
Men are “free” to stay single “forever” if they like. Just don’t hurt or waste a woman’s time by holding onto her (if marriage is an issue). Otherwise, it’s selfish and childish.
7 year itch on Aaron’s part? As for Lynn, perhaps it’s the sudden realisation that she is no spring chook anymore… And it’s too tough to teach an old dog new tricks and ‘force’ him to commit. By the way, Aaron fan, I’m just metaphorically using dog, not trying to direspecfully call him a dog.
I have heard that Aaron plays for the other team and Lynn just happened to be his ‘beard’ over the last few years. time to move on to a younger beard with less strings..
AK is an idiot who cheat woman. badman.
you are right. damn AK the woman cheater
im pleased to hear people condemn AK coz he’s really an idiot nut who cheat woman. keep on posting hates against him.
lets hate AK and boycott him the woman cheater. i hope his fans suffered from hates and shame to be his fans. long live leon! long live Leon!AK is &^%%#@@
you are right. i praise your statement.
just b/c Lynn made a high profile “breakup” doesn’t mean it’s AK foult. I just don’t understand u guys. How can u jump on a conclution of someones privite life. Do you live under their beds? The answer is NO! u know nothing about them and u don’t know what have happen between them. Know one in this world part of theirselfs knows what whent wrong and what lead to this breakup!
AK play stick and fire that burn his ugly face. stop cheating and playing woman you idiots! god damn you!
i’m more handsome than ugly man AK. facts!
i hate people playing woman, especially this idiot. his fans feels the shame.
i agreed. i hope no woman love AK and he will be a diamond yellow man
sum mo diamond yellow man? wo pu je tau…
you think yourself, ask your papa, stupid.
The more comments he gives, the more sicko he makes pple feel. Moreover who will feel secure with a man that keeps using career to delay marriage? Lame.
This is soo funny, some ppl don’t want to marry and that doesn’t mean he/she is a jurk or something. I know alot of ppl that have kids and a happy family without signing on the paper as leagal wife and husband. So what’s your prob that he haven’t married?
Just b/c a man doesn’t get married doesn’t mean he is a jurk or what ever you want to call them.
The problem is when the man (Aaron) “force” his plans on the woman (Lynn) or hurts women.
In general, research shows that “2/3 of unmarried couples who have children together split up before the child turns 10”. (Nov 2012)
Research has “consistently” shown that “children born outside of marriage are more likely to fail out of school and fall into poverty than their peers who were born to married parents”. (Nov 2012)
He is gay. This is the reason. Becareful andy, after he chase after you.
oic. no wonder he dont want married.
I don’t understand all this! If going out witH a guy for several years & he’s not interested in marriage why waste time ? Waste youth in the process?
when do dudes ever say that? I mean just by being male, they really wouldn’t have hate and resentment because it’s just yu lork that has ended and then you move onto fresh entertainment. It’s really the girl who gets battered and scarred time-wise and emotionally. tsk, tsk.
Watch out Wah Jai and Jacky!!!
AK is a gay idiot. look out wah jai, maybe he play your si fat.
i hate AK the rapist.
did he tiu lynn before?
i must tell my wife to beware this wolf.
I think this really shows and I KNOW that not all HK women are nice women no matter how pretty they are – I think that there is a distinct THING about all these women who deign to date – they all expect to get married – they don’t care how mercenary their motives are – they expect the transaction to result in marriage – I think even Karen Mok with her laissez faire live in English lessons probably hoped that someone would make a respectable wife out of her … I mean we hear stories about how so and so paid lifetime palimony to this starlet for wasting a chunk of her youth – so that shows that men KNOW that they are harming women.
don’t forget how insistent the mistresses of Stanley Ho are about being addressed as wife and how they always say my husband to reporters – it’s a very strange and very distinct thing that you see in HK.
I’m like very amazed at the level of rage in HK women who knowingly give themselves over – taking that risk and then refusing to lose – there’s this screech that I associate with them. And you know, he’s not nice to you but you weren’t too nice to engage, BUT you rely on, you trust on Chinese society’s disapproval to hold over your partner in your devastation. I don’t think it’s wrong because I think that Sex and City promotion of callousness and forcing women to behave as if their exploitation is consensual. But it is what it is – I don’t believe Chinese society should ever change and abandon support for jilted girls but we have to discourage the girls from giving themselves and seven years – I mean that emotional offering cannot be recovered nor duplicated.
I get it. Aaron Kwok, Ekin, Alex To – they sweettalked you, they bedazzled you – but there has to be some Josephine Siao inside of you who just skedaddles – euh ya hmo gow ngor!