Oxide Pang Ignores Angelica Lee’s Distress During Hospital Visit
Above: Oxide Pang toys with his cell phone while wife, Angelica Lee, is in obvious discomfort during a hospital visit.
Despite director Oxide Pang’s (彭順) public apology in cheating on his wife, Angelica Lee (李心潔), many view his words versus actions to be contradictory. Known to have a preference for young models, Oxide has reportedly been living together with Liddy Li (李悅彤) for almost a year while Angelica resided in Malaysia. Since the affair was exposed, Oxide has not had a clean break with Liddy yet. While Angelica and Oxide released a joint statement expressing their intention to work out the problems in their marriage, the couple was photographed in Malaysia in a tense state.
Does Not Care About Wife
A netizen shared a photo of Angelica visiting a hospital in Malaysia this week, with Oxide sitting negligently to the side. Tired, and without much energy, Angelica sat in the clinic with needles in her right arm for a blood test. Oblivious to Angelica’s pain, Oxide sat on the side, opting to play with his cell phone instead. Angelica’s face was contorted in obvious distress, while Oxide did not show an ounce of care towards her poor health condition during the visit.
Although Oxide flew to Malaysia immediately to see Angelica after his affair with Liddy surfaced, it is rumored that Angelica has had the last straw. Perhaps only accepting Oxide’s apology as a façade, it is speculated that Angelica has intentions to file for a divorce because she cannot stand him his infidelity any longer.
Angelica’s Sacrifices
Before Angelica’s marriage to Oxide, the award-winning actress had a bright acting career. She set aside her prime years to raise Oxide’s daughter from his previous relationship, allowing him to work without any family distractions. Angelica loved her stepdaughter as her own, and chose to raise her in Angelica’s native hometown in Malaysia.
When the couple exchanged marriage vows in 2010, Oxide expressed his gratitude towards Angelica’s sacrifices. He promised to “love her for fifty years” and that he “will not treat her poorly and doubly repay her love.” Despite Oxide’s love declaration, he ended up hurting Angelica in the deepest way possible through his infidelity.
Marital Problems Surfaced Last Year
Despite everything that they have gone through together, Angelica and Oxide’s 12-year relationship started dying last year– coincidentally, around the same time Liddy entered the picture. Angelica may have gotten tired of Oxide’s playboy habits, or their marriage took a toll because of long-term separation.
Adding to the problems, Oxide is known to have a passion for gambling. In his free time, he enjoys going to Macau and visiting their casinos. It is said that he roughly loses $500 000 HKD a night.
Support For Angelica
On June 8, Angelica is scheduled to appear at a ribbon-cutting ceremony for a tai chi establishment in Malaysia. It will be her first public appearance since the outbreak of Oxide’s affair. Although Angelica appeared to be strong in her public statement over the state of her marriage, her latest photo at the hospital revealed her stressed state. Fortunately, Angelica has her good friends, Charlie Yeung (楊采妮), Gigi Leung (梁詠琪), and Valen Hsu (許茹芸), to support her through this difficult stage.
This article is written by Su for JayneStars.com.
poor her! she deserves better
Latest news…a surprising twist. Rumor has it that Angelica Lee was once Oxide’s mistress herself. Source: entertainment.xin.msn.com
Maybe this is the reason why she chooses to forgive him?
Divorce the Bastard
agree !!!!
i agreed with you….
Agree !
hi..Angelica Lee’s…you are still young and beautiful…this type of husband….better divorce…not worth to be togather…he can cheat you now….forever he will cheat again….wake up…
Oxide is a bastard. Now the world knows.
Just divorce him. How are you going to continue ? So many many years ahead of your life. Don’t waste it away
I am woman and I know this may sound like “why am i bashing another woman?”…Sorry but she deserves this. He cheated before they got married, she forgave him. She went on marrying him and now he does it again and she forgave him. So anything that comes after this which is not in her favor, I can’t bring myself to say “Oh poor her”
Agreed!
Very harsh, but this is what she signed up for. Divorce this a$$hole.
lol. why he got married then? he could of stay single all his life and is totally fine to be a play boy all he wants.
marriage is not his style then just be in an open relationship.
I think he just wanted a full time nanny for his daughter
He’s a cheater, gambling addict and confident he can get away with it. People like this only care about themselves.
@kiwi
So true…
Let’s hope Liddy milk him for what he’s got and dump him. They deserve each other.
“he just wanted a full time nanny for his daughter”
More “servant” (like most wives) than nanny.
Carolcee, believe it’s hard to control when u are in love. Any sensible person would agree but how many can control the feelings when the heart says otherwise. Hope she gets the support and guidance to make the right decision which is best for herself.
I know… you tend to see the good side of the other person and try to convince yourself that person is worth it…
To Carolcee,
A lot of ppl thought that they could change the person for better once they get married. Or they were hopeful things get better, so probably that was why they forgave, but not everyone is lucky to marry someone to change for the better. though. Well let’s wait.
SHE DOESNT DESERVE IT. she is guilty of being responsible and caring and good. how can you or anyone put blame on her? she doesn’t deserve this man who cheats on her. in my eyes he is a creep, unworthy of her and not mature enough mentally to be anywhere around her. he picture tells the story of many women, and it isn’t fair!!!
to women ; please, if a man shows interest, don’t bow to his will. look at things clearly and do not flirt. he could have someone and is using u to do them in . i see to many women desperate to get any man, even if it means he is already taken and your stealing.
women should not be flirting , i see women doing this and saying it’s fine, it’s just fun. it isn’t . your literally taking scissors and stabbing his and his wife’s or girlfriends relationship. and if a man flirts with you , be stern. lets be there for each other.
a relationship is sacred. it should be treated as such. why are men allowed to desecrate a precious relationship like this? why do too many women just allow along, not minding that they are helping to desecrate his precious relationship too? what men need are not people who will allow them to behave ;like this, but strong women who will not give him the chance to do this to his wife/girlfriend. who will stand up for her even if they have never met her, by not flirting and playing with these creeps who are trying to harm relationships.
What you need for a breakup is gut. It is not easy to just give up a long relationship. I had been in a 10 yr relationship with my ex. I knew I needed to break up with me as he treated me as an atm. But as a woman it is often that our emotion takes over our mind. Finally one day he initiated a break up. I think that is the best present he gave me.
A marriage with betrayal is no longer meaningful.
He has no gut to free you. So you have to be courageous enough to say “back off”. This man who uses his bottom to think does not deserve you. He does not appreciate the sacrifice you make for him. Moreover is this the first time he makes such mistake?
You need to be more courageous than me.
look at the picture and it tells you that she is forced to make this statement.she is totally in his control,he only do this to clean his image as a cheater.
Yes it needs strength to contemplate a breakup.
Afterall, it’s rocking the boat and comfort zone (even if it’s a ‘comfort’ zone that has gone bad, it’s still familiar)
This is a disconnected couple.
Easily recognizable in doctors’ waiting rooms, food courts. Very different from the ‘engaged with family’ types.
Why is she torturing herself? Having a someone that is the same as having no-one as he’s not giving her much support at all.
He’s ‘existing’ by just sitting there, but he’s not involved or concerned.
Why does she ewant anyone like that around her?!???
Totally agree. His body is there but his heart is not. So trying to patch things up is useless. If she does sue for divorce, the step-daughter will return to her father. It may be cruel but Angelica should tell her what her father did to cause this separation.
Divorce the bastard for adultery, seek alimony, mental stress and pain, time and effort put in (like caregiver) to raise his daughter while he’s away…..get $$$$
just file for divorce and ask for alimony from this bastard.. get back your own career and start afresh.. live for yourself not for others.
She is stacked because she probably won’t get to see her step daughter anymore. If it’s true that she loves her like a biological daughter that’s more distressing than pretending not to see his infidelity.
I mean she is stucked. ..
I’m sorry to say this but is she stupid or something? Just get this bastard out of her life and move on! We always say everyone deserves a second chance but it’s not applied to her situation. She did give him 2nd chance and he blew it. This bastard cheated on her not once but twice. Once a cheater always a cheater. Can’t be trusted anymore.
Perhaps it is unfair on the issue about him at the hospital and his handphone. We can’t judge him based on that. At least he is there. But everything else just points to this man who will never ever change. He is so lucky to marry a beautiful wife who loves his daughter as her own and yet he chose to toy with perhaps surgically enhanced little playthings who probably won’t go through the bad times with him. I feel Angelica should leave him and still maintain a good relationship with her stepdaughter. I believe her reluctance probably stems from her love for her children and her traditional view of marriage. I won’t condemn her yet.
he is there but his heart isnt that makes him looks better than he really is,to me if he is really regretful he should castrate himself in front of his wife.
How would that benefit the wife if he castrates himself?
“he should castrate himself”
LOL! Agreed, but it’s not going to happen.
She looks like a little broken bird.
More i read about Oxide cheating Angelica news more i can’t hold my anger . This poor broken heart Angelica doesn’t deserve this pain anymore :(((((((
Grrrrrr. Oxide is scum!
Pls divorce him, Angelica!
Oxide is super xtra Toxic. Reli wish Angelica can get leave him & never look back.
I used to think that Angelica was very blissful until this news cropped up. I was just thinking why some men want to professed that they can love a woman for a lifetime but break it? They just wanted to gain good publicity? A lot of people who said it usually don’t do it, while some dont just say it but will do it. I don’t think we really need to profess such love proclaimation to the public if you’re really sincere about it. If you don’t love this girl, why still marrying her? Just because of you have been dating each other for a decade or your gratitude for her to help you raise your daughter?
He needs his wife for appearances when he attend functions or walking on the red carpet but he also likes younger girls like Liddy Li to satisfy his sexual urges.
To richardkcc,
Actually a lot of ppl cheat, both men and women. Some were lucky they were never get caught. Some of my male friends all have at least once cheated their wife. The only thing is they’re still having a happy family because the wife didn’t know. Just imagine if the wife finds out, hell break lose.
I TOTALLY have no idea who all three of them are, but it seems this topic is currently hot in this site. Let me express my thought on this: I don’t understand what is so interesting about this bastard that the victim and the 3rd party are willing to waste their time forgiving the bastard and fighting over the bastard which is actually much better spent on doing other things, improving yourself, and focusing on your own life.
Hi Qwerty,
You seemed to be very mad with Angelica’s husband to call him bastard.
I don’t know what to call him other than this. And no, I was not being mad when calling him a bastard but more to being in an I-do-not-care-who-you-are-but-you-are-a-bastard-once-you-cheat-simply-as-that attitude.
Just like Charmaine Sheh & Grace chan,….Anglica Lee is a Jia wood Daymaster born with either weak or dead husband star(s).
It’ll be strange if she could find a lasting (good quality) marriage with good ending.
I think why angelica still forgive not because she still love him very much because she love his daughter very much. A mother will always sacrifice everything to protect their children. Even the daughter is not her own but she has spend so many years taking care of her. Since angelica is not her biological mother, if they divorce, the court usually plead the child to the biological parents. To other, they will think is so silly for angelica to do.so but mother instinct are always above everything. Just like angie cheong taking care of her adopted son
We are all here for u… Do what is best for yourself..
Just got back from holidays and caught up on this news. Oxide Pang is a disgusting jerk! Love must be blind Angelica should have divorce him much earlier. Still not too late, she needs to ditch him and get more than half of his assets for looking after his daughter and sacrificing her career.
Well said Puff and Oxide is turning into carbon dioxide.
Haha so funny HTS… Too true
How many children they have, including the step daughter?
I do not think they have any children together. They just have the one daughter from his previous marriage.
Angelica should divorce him and give him back his daughter. She is still young and beautiful. She should go back to her career and do whatever she wants to do rather than stay at home taking care this Jerk’s daughter. Pang would not be appreciated any way. Do not believe him that he will change after this happened. 狗改不了吃杘
I meant “狗改不了吃屎”
“Angelica should divorce him and give him back his daughter”
That isn’t easy to do. The kid isn’t wrong here.
“狗改不了吃屎”
Yup, the difference between men and dogs. 😀
“the difference between men and dogs”
Unfortunately, there are too many dogs and not enough men. 🙂
LOL! Same thing as too many Chiefs not enough Indians. 😀
Don’t think women want dogs though. 🙂
It ain’t finish till the cows come home or It ain’t over till the fat lady sings. Anyways, it’s good for a laugh. LOL!
Has it ever occured to you that she loves their daughter? Biological or not.
“LOVE” Oxide loves women and gambling (addictions) and he loves his daughter, his wife (no addictions). Mother Angelica loves his daughter. What is love to them? 😀
He cheated on you once, shame on him. He cheated on you again, shame on you for not leaving him. She need to get herself a back bone. Most men are cheater, its really up to the woman if they can put up with it. And if they chose to put up with it, then good luck and don’t complain.
Who is this guy anyways. He’s ugly.
according to an article, Angelica is tolerant of his cheating because of her Muslim faith which allows 4 wives
You’re joking right? She is not a muslim.
@Funn,
Apparently some local news said Angelica is a converted moslem… =_=. Not sure how true it is though.
According to this news
http://www.setnews.net/News.aspx?PageGroupID=8&NewsID=25350&PageType=3
it is Angelica’s friend who speculated that she chose to forgive her husband because of religious belief. According to her friend, Angelica grew up in Malaysia, and Malaysia accepts the Islam’s polygamy system. That’s why Angelica can forgive her husband’s infidelity.
So, I think it’s just speculation from an outsider who doesn’t understand the religion situation in M’sia.
If so then Oxide must be muslim too and so is the girl. A bunch of rubbish.
Kidd, EXACTLY.
Utter nonsense.
And if she is a convert, we will know. She has to change her name. And her husband should be arrested for illicit affair which even for muslim exists.
Ignorant rubbish on the internet. She is not a muslim. If she was a muslim she would be covered her neck and arms in those hospital visit photos. She would need to change her name & Oxide need to convert too.
Polygamy is illegal in Malaysia for non-Muslim. End of story.
Bigamy is illegal as well, even for Muslim. So affairs are out of the question.
the latest news is that angelica was oxides former mistress herself,thats why she forgave him everytime. source http://afspot.net/news/
Thanks for the update Kolo. I just read that news and it is sad how history repeats itself if that is true.
Is it that Muslim religion again?
No. Just some ignorant people saying idiotic things.
Some one needs to lawyer up!
Always surprises me… what a women will put up with for the man she loves.
It surprises me how men put up with women as well and vice versa. Love truly makes us blind and foolish. I hope he either changes or she just divorces him because it us not fair for her live like this for the rest of her life. But she has a choice,unless she is heavily relying on him for financial support which us another reason why women should always hold onto their career even after marriage and kids. You never know what can happen.
A man must make sure he love the woman deep enough to commit – this is the case where the man does not love the woman enough and commit marriage to her or..
A lot of times, a man love the woman deep enough but had fall out of love in the course of times.
“A lot of times, a man love the woman deep enough but had fall out of love in the course of times.”
Well then, he should be fair and get a divorce before he gets involved with a 3rd (or 4th or 5th or …) party.
He’s selfish. My guess is he wanted Angelica to look after her daughter – moreover Angelica is so attached to his daughter. This I guess is a common man act to hunt for food outside and not divorce wife worrying about future consequences.
Even if he did love her,maybe he has fallen out of love? But yes,if that were the case then he should have divorced her instead of cheat on her and create this whole mess. I feel very bad for Angelica since she deserves better.
he dont know what love is,if he knows he wouldnt cheat.
Getting married to a gambler is a nightmare.
Totally agree with you! Being a cheater is already bad but being a gambler too? That is twice as bad.
more drama…. the gunman in a HK shootout was Liddy Li’s father.
http://thestandard.com.hk/news_detail.asp?pp_cat=30&art_id=146031&sid=42381720&con_type=3
What a jerk!