• It’s really controlling, emotionally abusive and selfish of his mom to not go to his wedding because he doesn’t approve of his wife. Especially over something as trivial as her age. It is HE who has to spend the rest of his life with her. Not the mother or the brother. Unless the wife did something horrible or has an extremely bad heart and nasty personality and clashes with the mom, otherwise there should be no reason whatsoever to choose not to attend her son’s wedding. And for his brother to side with her. That may be manipulative behavior. Like I said, unless there are other reasons we do not know about, if not, his mom is really something else. I wish her speedy recovery regardless. And boy, his brother put on a lot of weight. I use to think his brother was the better looking of the two but the weight doesn’t flatter his face anymore. Oh well. Who am I to judge? We all get old and lose our looks at some point. Just a matter of when.