Ada Choi and Max Zhang’s Marriage on Shaky Ground?
Although actress Ada Choi (蔡少芬) and Max Zhang (張晉) are envied for long 17-years of marriage, it is rumored that the couple has hit bumpy grounds amid speculation of marriage discord.
Rumors of trouble first emerged when Ada was spotted meeting up with her friends, Catherine Yan (洪欣) and Monica Chan (陳法蓉) and was later spotted walking alone with her children in a shopping mall. The rumors compounded when Ada sent a flower basket for Bob Lam’s (林盛斌) comedy show without including Max’s name, even though many other celebrity couples included their spouse’s name in their gifts.
Ada had also admitted that her relationship is not as loving as it had been perceived publicly. In an online stream, Ada shared, “We are not doing as well as what outsiders believe. There was a time period when I cried a lot.”
The actress added that when she lived in Shanghai for two years during the global pandemic, Max often left home for long period for work while Ada took care of her three children on her own. This made Ada felt as if she didn’t even have a husband and made her wish that she had someone she could rely on.
Ada also revealed that she experienced the greatest disappointment on her birthday when she expected Max would come home to celebrate. Unfortunately, the plan fell through after Max got sick and Ada ended up going to the park to cry to herself.
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This article is written by Sammi for JayneStars.com.
Her being a devout Christian, she won’t allow a divorce. I do empathize with her complaints though, as is typical with most SAHMs whose husbands are always AWOL due to work obligations. But what can she do, divorce isn’t really an option for her, unless they’re both okay with retirement from the limelight and limited resources.
Had a friend, who experienced this in her marriage, n they are now heading for divorced. Same-ish story, he would be away from home for work, leaving her 3 days of the week with the 2 kids. Recently, he just hit her with the “let’s separated”, she was stunned n didn’t know where it was from! Turn out he has a lady outside -.- not saying Max is cheating on Ava, but long distance relationship is very hard with kids. The mother will need supports and relieves from the kids, and being loved by her partner. When you don’t provide that, the mother/wife will always feel insecure (whether or not the husband works away from home). What matters is you both keep at it, life is imperfect, one/both just need to recognise that
Very true but that should apply to both the man and woman. I saw my brothers not getting much support from their wives as they did everything while their wives only worked or did their own thing. My brothers were on their own with help from me and their in laws. One of my sister in laws literally went on vacation for over a month and left my newborn nephew at home with my brother who had to work and take care of my nephew. Sadly, he was to faraway since she made him move so I was not around to help out. But to be fair, if the man is away working then that can be understandable to some extent as long as he is not cheating. We don’t know their whole story but yes, it is important to both support, trust and be considerate and understanding to our partners or the marriage cannot be blissful and everlasting.