Charmaine Sheh On Relationship With Kevin Cheng: “Our Timing Was Wrong!”
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Since filming TVB drama, Forensic Heroes 2 <法證先鋒II> in 2008, Charmaine Sheh (佘詩曼) has been romantically linked to former costar, Kevin Cheng (鄭嘉穎). It was also unclear whether Kevin and Charmaine’s growing involvement may have re (sulted in his subsequent break up with Niki Chow (周麗淇). Recently, Charmaine’s name was again linked to Kevin as numerous rumors abound that the pair may have reconciled their relationship!
With both Charmaine and Kevin filming in Hengdian, China, tabloids earlier claimed that she had visited his hotel via a secret passageway. Denying the rumors, Charmaine told the Oriental Daily that they did not even meet for dinner. “At the time, I thought to myself, ‘Will we meet for dinner?’ It turned out that this did not happen. Our rumors started when we had filmed Forensic Heroes 2. I feel that we do have a lot of conversational topics to talk about, but there is something that prevents further development between us.”
Charmaine added, “After experiencing several love relationships, I realize that timing was very important, which is equivalent to fate. If you are meant to encounter someone, you will inevitably meet him.”
Focusing on advancing her career over the past several years, Charmaine sacrificed romantic opportunities, but did not regret doing so since that was her choice at the time. Although she currently had pursuers, she was busy filming in Hengdian, but will have more free time this summer. Charmaine professed that she was willing to prioritize love over her career at this time.
Maintaining contact and good relations with former boyfriends, Charmaine still kept in touch with Kevin. When Kevin swept the television Best Actor Awards in Hong Kong, Malaysia, and Singapore last year, Charmaine was quick to congratulate him on Weibo. Regarding Charmaine’s statement that the timing was off, thus preventing the pair from advancing their relationship, Kevin commented, “People are quite surprising. Reflecting back on what had happened several years ago, there was a timing issue. I understand what she meant.”
Asked if the timing were to be right, would Kevin get back together with Charmaine? Kevin replied, “I truly cannot answer your question!”
Image source: Oriental Daily
Jayne: It appears that Charmaine may still interested in Kevin, but his sentiments are a little more difficult to decipher.
Always knew the two had at least some interest in each other, if not had actually dated.
Wrong timing… maybe Kevin was still with Niki Chow at the time?
No, I think Kevin broke up w/ niki beforehand. Not easy for niki to take but it’s better than him stringing her along once he likes someone else.
How did you know they broke up? I think he was still with Niki, that’s why Charmaine said it was wrong timing
Of course only the involved parties truly know. But I think they broke up when niki went to mainland filming and I believed Kevin when he said he never “1 foot take 2 boats”. U are certainly free to believe otherwise.
Charm and Kevin’s relationship was mostly frowned upon at the time because it came as a shock to many ppl within the industry and the public because everyone thought Kevin & Niki’s relationship was going well.
Niki went to China to film series during the time that Kevin and Char were filming FH2. He probably got bored and Char’s flirty ways resulted in him in changing heart. When Niki came back, they were distant… but he had already started seeing Char… and the rest is history……
To be honest, Char & Kevin’s relationship was never as celebrated as Niki & Kevin’s…. and I think that was what eventually lead to break up. Pressure, comparison and also coz of Kevin’s popularity just shot right down after that. Char didn’t want to be dragged down.
That’s why its bad timing.
I wonder what is the timing problem. They work in the same company. So, should have a lot of time to see each other. So, what is the timing problem?
Could be bad timing for their careers.
Yes, I think Kevin really liked charm after FH2 but he wasn’t ready for the media scrutiny and pressure that came w/ dating her at the time.
But now that Kevin’s career is at its peak, he doesn’t have time to try again w/ charm. Plus he probably has girls hitting on him left and right.
Too bad their timing was off. They looked like a perfect match. Hope charm finds a great guy soon.
This interview is not complete. Here is the full interview. There will be a series of 5 interview in this week.
http://www.ihktv.com/charmaine-sheh-kevin-cheng-timing.html
It appears that Charmaine may still interested in Kevin, but his sentiments are a little more difficult to decipher.
This line indicate she has resigned to fate & no longer has desire to reconcile with him)
直至最近又傳我們一起，其實也不敢見面，若然被拍到照片，被人亂寫又很無謂，除非我們真的拍拖，那就寫出來吧！不過雖然我們沒有見面，但也有聯絡，只是未有開花結果而已，看來這就是緣分吧！
i didn’t sense the no desire to reconcile with him off of your passage though 🙁
不過雖然我們沒有見面，但也有聯絡，只是未有開花結果而已，看來這就是緣分吧！
Even though we didn’t meet up, we still keep in contact. It’s just we haven’t came to fruition. I guess this is fate!
Her last line fate refer to them not being able to become a couple, and she accepts this.
So she is admitting having dated him? Or interested in him? Which is which?
They only hinted about having interest.
Obviously she was interested. Look at how handsome he is, who wouldn’t be?
From her interviews, it sounded like she has a crush on him but both are busy with their careers development. So, they did not click.
Why i like about Charmaine? She’s one of those few actress who doesn’t goes for PS and she’s hardworking too.
*go
i agree!! she’s a natural. don’t get why people like to criticize her nose (it’s not small I know!). if they get ps, they complain. if not, they complain!
Hard-working, high EQ, funny in interviews. I admire her work ethics.
yep, atleast she didn’t alter her Nose and that’s what I admire of her for being courageous unlike Angelababy, Viann and PSS, they’re too scared of their original appearance.
Big nose is fortunate in Chinese face reading. 😀
Charmaine have an inch long scar on her chin. In fact, she was cool about it and said she had no time to bother with it. She carried that scar on her chin for almost 10 years.
I believe no one would criticize (ok, maybe haters) if any woman want to remove a scar from their face.
U guys sure she doesn’t have any PS. Her features sure look very different to when she started. I use to like her alot when she 1st started acting but after her looks started to change n the weight lost I don’t really like her anymore.
@ 1ni
Do you look the same now as you did 15 years ago?
1ni, she did have PS as in NPS (Natural Plastic Surgery) and a procedure called AGEING. Charmaine aged a lot lately. Also too thin.
Ive noticed the change not just now but many years ago already. it started to change just in her early years in the entertainment industry. 10 years ago.
she’s really getting old. look at the wrinkles under her eyes and around her chin. the short hair makes her ugly too….charmaine’s not as pretty as fala. she looks like she’s in her 40s.
Geez, harsh much?
Of course fala is prettier. She’s much younger and has more classically beautiful features. Why need to compare?
Charmaine can be uglier than A and prettier than B and A can be uglier than C and B can be prettier than D, so wat is the point to compare? We are finding the most pretty woman in our eyes?
I heard that having a big nose means you’ll have good fortune, but not sure how true it is. I admit that I do admire Charmaine for not going for plastic surgery and being her natural self.
I don’t think so, I think that Charmaine looks better at her age than Fala does. I bet that Fala will not look as good as Charmaine when she reaches her age.
I don’t care someone go for PS or not as long as they dun make themselves too fake or too doll-alike. BTW, even if they did so, if they has real talents, it isn’t really a matter.
There is a funny thing to the audience now: No PS = finding their ugly parts. With PS = no confidence on look. So how to satisfy? Well, when you like something, intentionally or not, you will find the points to excuse.
I also really admire Charmaine’s work ethic and dedication – she also seems really easygoing and nice to work with! But somehow, that admiration just doesn’t translate to the screen for me.
agreed with Veejay, she seems very hard working, I like her with Kevin…they look very compatible.
She also seems to have many friends, u can tell by the number of wedding she was invited to be bridemaid
First Toby, then Annie, later sherming, and probably last Angela. Poor charm must feel the pressure now.
they’re all in the same group. they’re bridesmaids for each other. they have like 10 bridesmaids per wedding.
well i know for sure that christine ng doesn’t like her.
@frez
why doesn’t christine ng not like her?
i mean, why doesn’t she like her
if someone tried to ruin the relationships of 2 of your closest friends, then that would explain why you shouldn’t be friends with that third wheel because her flirtatious ways may also affect ur own marriage. 2 of her closest friends are Niki and Anita. I’m not saying Niki and Anita forced Christine into not being friends with her, because Christine surely can be friends with anyone she wants as she’s a very sociable person – but maybe she saw first hand what happened to them and thought Char’s actions were very shameful.
Oh she’s also close friends with Kathy Chow, and Kathy Chow are friends with Joe Ma’s wife who used to be in the model business. They recently had dinner together. So that’s wife/gf #3 of the guys that Charmaine ‘apparently’ had a thing for. If this happened to 3 of ur friends, geez, you’d also try steer clear away from her.
Don’t think Charmaine’s that likeable within the industry. She only hangs around the same very small group of B/C-listed actresses. Chilam Cheung has unfriended her on Weibo. I wonder why? You can say its Anita Yuen’s influence but comeon, if nothing was going on, why do you think Chilam would even delete her off his Weibo…. because there’s some truth to it?
@Fez,
If that’s the case then you should hate Kevin too for dumping Niki over flirtious Charmaine?
I would like to offer my view on Charmaine here, in view of the allegations against here. Please note that I am not here fan, having known about her only recently. However I do feel that one need to consider following points :
It was quite probable that Kevin was not too happy on the relationship with Niki, and wanted out. He was just being nice and waited for right moment to dump Niki. One of the reasons is that Kevin did not like her tomboyish (or immature) character. I have seen video of Kevin’s ears being pulled by Niki!
FH2 brought Kevin and Charmaine nearer. Previously they might have been already mutually attracted towards each other. Afterall, Kevin did kiss Charmaine on the cheek on the night they won the best actor and actress award in the TVB award ceremony back in 2006. Kevin likes Charmaine intelligence and relates very well with her. Charmain probably likes Kevin’s good look and character.
Should Kevin stayed with Niki even though he was unhappy with the relationship? I think Kevin did the right thing. He might have talked over it with Charmaine, but it has to be Kevin that made the decision. I don’t think it being a case of Charmaine stealing Kevin from Niki.
If Kevin is married with kids, then it is another matter for Charmaine to be involved. However, this is not the case.
Whether Charmaine is flirtatious or not, it is a matter of degree. At least she does not go whoring around.
Fez,
Weibo has only been popular the last couple of yrs while chilam and charmaine’s rumors were several yrs ago. Maybe u should ask why did chilam “friend” her on Weibo in the first place.
And are B/C-list actresses not as worthy as A-listers to be your friends? I think it’s nice any time your close friend wants to include u in the bridal party. I much rather have a few best friends than a bunch of friendly acquaintances.
Btw, who do u think Christine hates more- charmaine or Joel Chan?
Well everything anyone says here is all a matter of speculation, so who really knows how true any of it is?? None of us know any of them personally so who knows?? It’s all up to fate and time will tell what is true and what is not.
I heard that it is bad to be a bridesmaid more than 3 times and 3 should be the limit or else you are risking your chances of being a real bride. I only did it once and my mom already freaked out and would not allow me to do it again.
Oh HTS, dun be worried. I have a number of friends who are bridesmaid for tons of time (someone do it as a part-time job) and 3/4 of them got married happily.
i like charmaine too, she’s hard-working and very determined and has very high EQ. i hope she’ll be able to meet someone soon.
i seem to enjoy her more over the years .. now watching back her older series, i am no longer annoyed with her.
I agree. Her acting has improve so much. She is really one of the better actress around. I think she is great.
Why suddenly so many come confessing about past relationships and all? What happened? Somebody poured truth serum into the HK water tanks or something?!
Haha your comment just cracked me up, Funn.
Personally I think it’s good that more HK celebs are being truthful about their past relationships and all. It’s better than their beating around the bush all the time. Wouldn’t mind if some other celebs ‘fessed up to some of the things we know that they have done (e.g PS) or relationships that are currently in progress instead of denying it all the time. It’s getting annoying.
I know! I mean I love the fact they’re suddenly revealing things we ALL already know but I am suddenly not comfortable with the honesty. Like what happened man! What happened!
PS they will never ever admit. Unless admitting to PS is cool. And it is never cool thus far.
Haha, ermm someone put a voodoo spell on them all? 😛 Or they just got tired of lying/denying…
That’s true, but it so annoying though. I mean if they have to courage to go get PS then they should at least have the courage to admit it. True fans won’t love them any less for that and those who are into them just for their looks, well, those aren’t really the kinds of fans you want anyway.
Funn,
I guess its prolly because their level of popularity has gotten down or too quiet lately thus they have to start revealing their so called “secret” when everyone knew about it already to make their popularity rise again?
I think PS secrets will be carry with them to the coffin cuz it’s really bad if they admit having them as ppl still believe in “natural beauty”? hehehe.
Publicity.
You can say Charmaine is so popular doesn’t need publicity. Well she’s been filming in China. No one in Hong Kong has heard much about her work in China, so out comes some interview which is totally based on Kevin.
And maybe, she really does wanna get back with Kevin, so she wants him to know she’s willing to sacrifice her career for him. (hint)
I know.. why all of the sudden ah? Why didn’t she clarify the whole scandal when it first came out and stop the reporters from labeling her as third person?
Kevin Cheng never admitted he dated Niki, nor did he admit dating Charmaine. Back then, Charmaine already clarified she is not dating Kevin or Ron.
I don’t see why they need to clarify over and over again, or having cry jilted and broken hearted years after the scandal.
Rainbow,
How closely did u follow this story back then? B/c charmaine definitely tried to clarify and deny that she was a 3rd party. But those clarifications fall on deaf ears when u have tabloids trying to sell juicy gossip.
Perhaps like Veejay pointed out she needs some PR to boost her slowing career.
Maybe she was indeed a third party and didn’t have the guts to lie?
Probably a calculated move from her side i.e. PR and getting some attention from Kevin since he is rumored with some pretty chinese actresses.
Anyway I think that ship has left already, Kevin has too many options to bother with Charmaine anymore.
I’m thinking about this too. Why suddenly now she’s talking about Kevin this way?
Charm should just shut up. She only starts to talk about Kevin right at his peak of his career…. not during when his career was down.
If this one can be call as a public publicity, then all the Kenneth – Nancy reveal story will be a public publicity of Kenneth.
As some ppl said this to Kenneth: He wanted to say out because if Nancy goes out with other guy, ppl won’t call her a two-timer. Put it in this case, Charmaine says this at the moment KC has rumour with Ying’Er so if KC and Ying’Er go out together ppl won’t blame KC a two-timer.
Noone is calling Kevin a two-timer with this Ying-Er rumors because noone’s really sure if he is still going out with Char still.
So you think Char is publically coming out with this so ppl won’t call Kevin a two-timer? Then why didn’t she do the same when the ‘Kevin cheated on Niki’ news came out? Guilty because it was the truth?
Fez,
Yes, the media IS calling Kevin a 2-timer since they say he and charm reconciled.
Back then, charmaine did clarify that Kevin is a gentleman and wouldn’t cheat on anyone. Maybe u conveniently forgot or ignored those statements.
That is if he and Ying Er are real. if not, how can he be two timer? And that is if he and Charmaine has reconciled.
Right now I wouldn’t call him even one timer.
@fez: it isn’t me the one who call KC two-timer. I based on the conclusions given in lastest case of Kenneth Ma and Nancy to provide a view on the revealation of a relationship.
I also wonder why she is suddenly talking about Kevin??? Why didn’t she talk about him before?? Is it because he is now popular?? Not sure…
I really do hope both Kevin and Charmaine both find someone soon and full the gap in their love life.
It would be better if they were together as they make a really good couple.
For a time they were compatible but to be cruel… this is the short shelf life of women lah.
He age on to become more charming, more matured, more witty, more funny, more hot property.
And Charmaine is a great gal… but compared to those young beautiful, surgically enhanced or not mei mei… she is no match leh…
But Canto, those plastic mei mei are like the story of the Painted skin. Where a skeleton spirit painted herself with human skin to make herself beautiful.. same goes to those plastic dolls, they just look pretty outside but deep inside they’re still pretty ugly.
How do you ensure that the ugly outside are not ugly inside? Prettiness and cruel intention of a woman hasn’t 100% relationship.
I think Veejay meant that no matter how you change your outer appearance you will still be ugly “inside” bc it’s fake.
I has nothing to do with personality even it shows lack of confidence. Furthermore the evil intentions of plastic dolls are far more dangerous than an average natural girls.
Then every girls in industry are ugly inside :P. They changed their outer appearance by PS, by medicine and by makeup stuffs :P.
Average natural girls still can be more dangerous than plastic dolls because of their jealousy, lol.
Obviously we are talking about PS here and not make-up.
What i meant is that men are more susceptible to the evil intentions of plastic dolls.
And plastic dolls can’t be jealous? Take a look at Viann. Natural girls more dangerous? Are you talking from own experience?
No, look like you are having bad experiences with PSed girl in real life more. Cruel intentions can appear in ugly or beautiful girls, natural, semi natural or PSed girls. Or even not girls but guys. Who is more cruel than who, it is hard to generalise, even impossible. So your conclusion of PSed girls = cruel is just prejustice.
PS or makeup are just the same, their purposes are to make this person’s look change.
Is it really that difficult to understand that guys are more susceptible to the evil intetions of plastic dolls i.e. more dangerous relative to average natural girls?
Example, which has been tested out by a TV-channel: two girls one hot and one plain looking ask several guys to borrow their mobile. Do I need to tell you the outcome?
Susceptible or not is the matter of the man, not that the girls have cruel intention or not.
If you say so. Try asking random guys to borrow their mobile with and without make-up and im sure you will see the difference.
I said, it isn’t the matter come from the girls if the guys is susceptible toward pretty girls or not. It’s the matter of the guys so it can’t prove that prettier girls are more evil or uglier girls are beautiful inside.
I often borrow mobile from guys without makeup and they still give me 😛 so sorry, I can’t see the difference.
What I was trying saying is Despite these Plastic Dolls like Viann and PSS who have changed their face entirely, deep inside they’re still the same as like their original face. I didn’t mean their character/attitude/behaviour are bad or etc, its a different thing.
Exoidus got it right on the part “inside is still fake”. I have never mention anything about cruel intention.
I agree with Veejay that plastic surgery just changes your physical and outer appearance, but your personality and character inside are still the same.
Honesty, I think PSS was a pretty girl even before the PS :). I looked at her childhood picture and she was cute. The change in her face is in order to make the original prettiness look better. She didn’t change all like Viann. Ah, the reporters retouched PSS’s old pic by photoshop then compare it with current pic in order to make it is more different. In fact she dun change tat much. Only the lips are more pouty in the face (and the boobs are bigger).
I said about the opposite. These PSed girls are fake inside, so wat make you think the non/less PSed girls are not fake or less fake?
First of all I never said that plastic dolls were supposed to be more evil than natural girl and vice versa.
I was poiting out that guys will more likely fall for evil traps set by plastic dolls relative to natural ones.
Random guys on the street and not guys you know. Besides it could still be due to luck i.e. nice guys etc.
I don’t have a matter of how the guys think. I’m saying about the girls themselves from the view of a girl :). What the guys think isn’t wat I want to talk about and if you want to talk about that, I blv the guys are attracted by boobs and butt more than face :P, so PSed girls dun really need to change face for the guys.
Personally besides personality the face esp. eyes and smile are far more important than the body.
There is always a possibilty to do lots of exercises to burn off fat.
PS girls shouldn’t change themselves for the sake of any guys but for themselves.
Exoidus,
“Personally besides personality the face esp. eyes and smile are far more important than the body.”
Wish more guys thought so lah… Hehe regarding to physical attraction, I still think that guys place different importance on the three areas: face, boobs, and legs. Hehe so in this regard, you may be a “face man”?
LOL, Jayne “face man” haha. Never thought about it but suppose I value the face more than the other two areas.
In the end the most important thing is to share the most fundamental values I think. Strongly prefer independent and intelligent girls. Wouldn’t mind having one more intelligent than myself, LOL
It is more than just looks. You can be a really physically attractive girl, however, if you don’t present or carry out yourself well then you won’t attract anyone…
She is ok. Tavia aged more & her nose is too protruding
Don’t these artists realise that their job isn’t normal, i.e. 9-5 job?. Of course it’s not going to be right timing. You either stick with it or marry an average joe.
Quite difficult for her to date.
She’s too smart, too rich, too famous.
She practically dont need any man to look after her!
Anyone less famous or make less would seem not good enough for her.
The media will kill any possible romance!
Think the translation is not very accurate – the original article from Oriental Daily (http://orientaldaily.on.cc/cnt/entertainment/20120305/00282_006.html) was way more comprehensive and the takeaway from that was really that Kevin and Charmaine had NEVER dated.
Jayne – can you please include the other bits in the Oriental Article? Otherwise, the current translation may be misleading. Thanks.
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Buster,
I would like to also standy this news article on Charmaine Sheh declaring that the timing was wrong thus preventing the advancement of their relationship. This is what she said in the Oriental Daily interview. It is up to interpretation as to whether she and Kevin had started, immediately stopped or not. Suffice to say that she had feelings for him but they never advanced further.
When she mentioned the relationship did not blossom into fruit, it can be interpretated as did not officially date or did not date for a lengthy amount of time. For Charmaine to feel the need to step out and clarify in this manner, I think it can be interpreted as they did date, but not for long, as it did not advance. If they never dated, she could have simply said, “We had good feelings towards each other but never dated.”
The other bits in the article qualify that main idea, but still support it.
Jayne – I understand where you are coming from, but the statement that is most misleading is:
“Recently, Charmaine’s name was again linked to Kevin as numerous rumors abound that the pair may have reconciled their relationship!”
The word “reconciled” suggests that there was indeed a relationship to reconcile – this was never mentioned in the original article. Given that this appears to be the editor’s foreword, can I please check what is the source of this statement?
Buster,
Your questioning of the word usage “reconcilation” is interesting because Kevin had once used the word reconcilation in his response to reporters:
“After winning awards, more people care about my love life. We have maintained our friendship status. We are not back together; it is not reconciliation!”
http://www.jaynestars.com/news/kevin-cheng-does-not-deny-dating-charmaine-sheh-in-the-past/
When teased further, Kevin claims that he was just using the word “reconciliation” as it was the choice of word used by the media. Does his subconscious choice of word indicate they were together? He did not deny nor did he admit.
In this sense, Face Magazine (the issue reporting on his allegedly dating of Ying Er) also claimed that he and Charmaine had “Reconciled.”
Interesting that Charmaine is being so blunt about her love life. In some ways (and maybe I’m projecting because I’m her age), I think she has just recently felt the relentless movement of time. I totally understand how it can be; one day she’s just putting her head down and working hard, and then she realizes that 10 years have flown by.
Regardless of all the rumors that have been generated throughout the years, I do like her as an actress and think that she has worked very hard for everything she has today. It’s a little cruel for the media to insinuate that she’s a ‘leftover’; I’m sure her maturity and life experiences are worth more than a young pretty face to some gallant gentleman somewhere.
I wish her the best of luck, whether it’s with Kevin or someone else.
Sounds like real drama unfolding – after all Charmaine is a drama queen. Hope this will spark more actions.
Since Kevin likes intelligent woman, there is high chance that Charmaine will get him.
some ppl just really need to get over the nikki/kevin’ship. Even if they have dated, it’s still his prerogative to get out when it’s no longer working out for one party. That’s the magic of dating. For ppl to blame it on Charmaine is so high school-ish.
Now some are criticizing Charmaine for being candid about Kevin and her??!! How about she’s being asked?!! It seems like Kevin had the same problem, alwasy being hounded on their “supposed” past relationship, but I don’t see any one accusing him of trying to generate publicity. Charmaine is capable of generating gossips/rumors on her own. There is no need to coattail riding anyone.
Regarding their ”relationship”, in my opinion, they’re both attracted to each other, that’s obvious enough, and are still having that feelings. That’s why both gave such vague and “iffy” answers and asked. If they’re not interested, they could easily say that they’re good friends but not compatible as couple…. yada yada… the same bs they fed reporters when asked about “rumor” co-stars. But instead, they shared said more than necessary when both having been in the series together for 2 years. I think both Kevin and Charmaine haven’t truly giving up on each other.
Correction:
“they shared said more than necessary when both having been…” should read: they shared more than necessary when haven’t been…
lingling,
I dont understand why some ppl are so mad at Charmaine either even if she’s the 3rd party.. in the whole Niki and kevin saga.
PPl often blame the fairer gender for the all the wrongdoings and the man is always spared/excused lol..
Veejay,
this may sound mean, but even if Charmaine is the 3rd party, then Kevin should thanked her for saving him from his relationship,lol… because it is quite apparent that he wanted out. He sure wasn’t eager to run back to Nikki when “things” didn’t pan out between him and Charmaine.
lingling,
I’m not sure whether Kevin wanted out from Niki or not since I’m not kevin or Charmaine. I can’t also say thanks Charmaine for saving him out from Niki’s as Niki isn’t some sort of devil or gangster’s daughter that kevin has to consider beforehand before dumping her. I’m sure as a grown up man like Kevin, he knows what he’s doing and handle things.
I agree with you that ppl should let go of the Kevin+Niki relationship and we will know whether charmaine is the culprit or not as we were present in their relationship..
I also have this feeling about niki being immature when she was with kevin and there might be many cases where it make Kevin really embarrassed and uneasy during the whole relationship so can’t really kevin for “dumping” her..
*as we don’t know whether Charmaine was the culprit of their break up or not*
Veejay,
I don’t mean the word “saving” as in saving Kevin from the “evil” Nikki but more in a sense of Charmaine being the reason for Kevin to end the relationship. Of course, we’re all speculating that there was a love triangle.
You are right that Kevin is a grown man and should be able to end a relationship without involving a 3rd person, but perhaps said than done. Most ppl don’t call it quit when they want out only because they’re avoiding confrontation until something or someone gives them that motivation to make the move. Hence, I said if there is indeed a triangle, then Charmaine was Kevin’s motivation.
lingling,
I agree with you that some men can be really pain in the a$$ for not be able to end a relationship nicely and firmly. but the whole scenario can be anything.. I mean anything can happen..
it can be like this :-
1) Kevin is infact a playboy therefore, he dumped nikki for charmaine.
2) Kevin could be someone who isn’t good at handling a relationship thus making his relationship with Nikki dragging etc.
3) Charmaine is a big flirt, she purposely seduced Kevin from Niki.
4) Niki is a big kid who always put Kevin into an uneasy situation thus leading their break up etc.
5) kevin might be a cheater, he just loves cheating behind his gf’s back.
Anythign can happen.
Veejay,
yes, anything is possible and as we’re not the involved parties, we would never know. but in my experience, the least sensationalization and dull reason is the most likely one.
To Fez,
A lot of ppl will blame the girl for a break-up say for example Niki or everyone pointed the fingers at Charmaine for robbing him away from Niki. I personally feel if their relationship (Niki & Kelvin) are so strong or nothing is wrong with the relationship they won’t break-up. It’s not one hands clap.
Maybe Charmaine did try to take Chilam away from Anita but she wasn’t successful because Anita & Chilam’s relationship were strong. See the point?
@ bloom,
“Maybe Charmaine did try to take Chilam away from Anita but she wasn’t successful because Anita & Chilam’s relationship were strong. See the point?”
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what??? where in the world did this come from? other than them (Chilam and Charmaine) looked cute together onscreen, I don’t believe there are any causes to speculate of any affairs. If I remembered correctly, of all the co-stars she was rumored with, the only guy Charmaine admitted to crushing on was Sunny Chan. And then, there is Benny Chan, which I believed she admitted to have dated (not sure, since I didn’t really follow this as I’m not a big fan of Benny and was hoping it’s not true), but other than that, no one else. So to say that she tried to “steal” Chilam, a married man, is a huge accusation.
lingling,
Then how do we explain on Anita frequent visits to the site when Chilam and charmaine were shooting. I mean she don’t just go there for nothing if she didn’t sense suspicious rite? And the reporters wouldn’t just post something if they didn’t investigate.
@ Veejay
Frequent or one time? Tabloid reporters are unlike other reporters. They don’t need to be accountable for the untruths they publish.
Anyway, Anita has explained this in an interview with Stephen Chan. She said she just happen to be nearby with friends. So, went to visit her husband.
Here’s the part of the interview where Anita explained the visit.
http://centaur014.multiply.com/video/item/219
This is just being ridiculous, Anita is there to visit her husband and you make it sound as though Charmaine is trying to steal Chilam. Get a life!
IF I were a famous/rich man, I would choose girls like the girls in Turning Point 1 – not very famous, look beautiful and young. Why try to have a big headache with famous, kind of old women?
Yes, I am a poor man, I rather than marry to another woman who is a normal woman (may be rich but not famous).
I know there is thing called love but love take time to develop and chances.
2011 is the year where Kevin has changed. All his friends noted the change.
Following is an interesting recent TVB documentary about him:
http://youtu.be/aOD2rlCOSOA
However, during the best actor/actress award ceremony in Singapore, he seems to be uneasy when standing beside Charmaine. He was very guarded. On the other hand he was very much at ease with other stars, particularly Myolie. It is really puzzling.
Kenny,
Thanks for sharing that link to Kevin’s “my 2011”.
I didn’t know Kevin was a new singer the same yr as nicky Wu and Steven ma. Quite ironic that they all became more known as actors.
And I’ve heard Kevin say that he envies roger kwok’s perfect family life for many yrs now. When is he gonna actually do something about it?
“I didn’t know Kevin was a new singer the same yr as nicky Wu and Steven ma. Quite ironic that they all became more known as actors.”
I remember in Happy Camp he said he became a singer the same year Nicky came to HK market, not same year as Nicky became singer. Rather funny respond as Nicky countered “I am not that old!” and Kevin said “Stop saying nonsense!”
Did you watch Happy Camp? One of the funniest game show ever.
I think with Charmaine’s fame and success, it would be hard for a man to deal with, especially if he is less popular. At that time, KC was a male lead but he never was as famous as Charmaine until BBJX. Maybe he was afraid of others saying he was using Charmaine to boost his own career or maybe even burdened by his failing relationship with Niki. Either way, their chemistry is obvious but their sparks failed to light the furnance.
I do like Charmaine & KC as a couple. If they ever get together, I would be very happy.
Kevin and Charmaine’s relationship sounds most mysterious and gets more so as time goes on. There seems to be nothing clear as to whether they ever did date and the word “reconciliation” makes the issue more puzzling. Kevin keeps on saying that he is not dating anyone. Although Charmaine and he have been in Hengdian for some time now he insists that they have not yet met each other. Does that mean then that neither is interested in each other? Maybe something fishy is going on and they are not telling! Anyway, I too hope it will be a happy ending and that they would, in the end, get together for they look so good as a couple.