Lynn Hung Reconciled With Aaron Kwok; Hints Still Waiting For His Proposal
Over the last two weeks, the romantic fate between Aaron Kwok (郭富城) and Lynn Hung’s (熊黛林) relationship was of great public concern. It was speculated that Lynn had pushed Aaron too hard towards marriage, while Aaron was not yet ready for this level of commitment. Fortunately, Aaron and Lynn apparently resolved their differences and were back together. Lynn revealed that Aaron had shared a meal with her parents last week. However, marriage appeared to be the state that Lynn ultimately strived for!
After the lover’s very public episode, many of Aaron’s fans directed their anger towards Lynn on Weibo, claiming that she had used Aaron to generate publicity for herself. At a Bally’s promotional event yesterday, Lynn stated that she was not unhappy about Aaron’s fans’ response. As reported by On.cc, Lynn declared that as long as the fans liked their idol (Aaron), that was enough and they did not have to share the same positive sentiments towards her. When pointed out that the fans’ idol (Aaron) loved Lynn, she laughed awkwardly.
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Earlier, Lynn and her parents were spotted having dinner with Aaron. Asked what they had discussed over dinner, Lynn replied that it was a normal dinner. “As a public figure, he (Aaron) knows that he has less privacy and needs to give up on some things.” Lynn’s statement referred to the lack of privacy in his dating life. Despite the couple’s lack of outright declaration that they were in a relationship, it has long been a known secret that Lynn and Aaron have been together for 5 years.
It was apparent that Lynn and Aaron’s relationship was back to normal, although the issue of marriage was still an issue to be considered. Asked whether her patience had finally paid off, Lynn protested, “I am still not married!” Lynn’s spontaneous remark indicated that marriage was still the ultimate path she strived for in her relationship with Aaron.
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Jayne: If Lynn’s response towards dating Aaron was considered to be “high profile” in the past, Lynn’s latest response basically admitted all the rumors that have been going on in their relationship over the last two weeks. Aaron is still referring to Lynn as “a good friend of the opposite sex” though.
I think no doubt Aaron is serious about Lynn otherwise he wouldn’t have dined with her parents soon after the exposure. That would be the ultimate pressure and stress man. Well, serious but not dead serious to the extend of marriage 🙁
I think it is sad and actually sort of pathetic that Aaron still refuses to acknowledge Lynn as his girlfriend. It’s like everyone already knows so what is the big deal??? I hope that he eventually marries her or else she is just waiting in vain…
Don’t blame Aaron for knowing what he wants regardless of our opinions of his decision. She has the choice to leave if she doesn’t like his decision. If both parties have different ideals, then the relationship will eventually end unless they find a way to compromise.
I really don’t know what’s on his mind. I mean, if he was still a young rising star, it’d be understandable to keep it underground. He’s going on 50 and eventually if he does get married, it’d be very unfair for their child, if there’s gonna be one.
Maybe he still thinks that he is forever young??? That is sad if he does. Or is he going down the road of not wanting to marry and just dating endlessly like some others?? Who knows?? I think that he does want to but for some odd reason still hasn’t yet. I have a good feeling that he does want to have kids though but he should asap before it is too late.
He has a mid-life crisis!
The fact that she has to be all tip toeing around the topic “marriage” doesn’t sit right with me.
Most girls dream about their wedding day, discussing her ideal wedding etc but she has to be all hush so “King” Aaron doesnt “run a thousand miles” man if i were her i would have dumped his ass ages ago.
Why cant he do something for her? His not willing to publicly admit their relationship and behind close doors shes not even allowed to talk about marriage with him in fear he will run a mile.
Dude you may be called one of the “Four Heavenly Kings” but your not really a King >_<
I agree. It makes her look/the media portray her as pathetically waiting around for the ring and all. I mean, if he really loved her he would understand that she’s looking for a more serious commitment.
Maybe he dont love her enough, that’s possible right?
Why must he marry her just because everyone expects that?
It’s his marriage, no one should give him any pressure.
If he doesn’t love her enough to marry her, then he really should have the decency to leave her, and end it with her right now. I feel that somehow he’s leading her on, especially with making up with her and meeting with her parents over dinner.
I agree that he should be more clean cut. If he doesn’t want to marry her then he should just leave her. It feels like he is just wasting her time and being wishy washy about marriage which is really sad…
Who knows? Maybe he already told her that he doesn’t want to get married in the next few years and that she is free to leave him anytime.
We don’t know the truth so we should just leave them alone to figure it out. I feel she is the one refusing to let go.
It’s not just his marriage, however. It’s their marriage, so it does involve what’s best for both of them..
he’s waiting for someone better… in the mean time, lynn will do.
That would be really sad if that is what he is really trying to do.
Sick isn’t it? She wants to be made an honest woman by Aaron and fans say she wants publicity. His refusal to marry her is what? Free meals without the commitment?
Is not exactly what I call free meals since he probably have given her many expensive presents.
Sorry, I see Aaron as a tool in this. It’s one thing for both parties to refer to each other as a good friend (Bernice & Moses, Bosco & Myolie) because that’s kind of mutual agreement to keep things on the d/l, but clearly Lynn is seeking some kind of acknowledgement at least and Aaron just refuses to acknowledge her. Lynn, just walk away with your head held high. If he’s not going to marry you at 50 with an established career, he’s never gonna marry you.
As I said before, this man is having mental problem of approaching an “old-man”. Yes, he may look younger than normal 50s men are but he is OLD, OLD, and OLD.
What kind of a man who does not want to anounce this is the woman I love??? Famous people in young ages, if I may answer this. However, he is old and people know he is dating, sleeping, having sex wirh her every Friday!!!!
…and he chooses to do his way.
Maybe she too sleep with him because of money and fame?
She could be a popular Chinese escort and china doll ,who know?
Well she could still find other rich man if Aaron reject her since she still have the look rich man prefer .
If a guy isn’t ready for marriage by the time he’s reached 50, I question his mental age or sexuality. I love Aaron but this is ridiculous. His career is rock solid so nothing is preventing him from marrying her or at the very least, acknowledge her status in his life. Out of the 4 Heavenly Kings, it seems like Jacky is the only one with balls and doesn’t let fans dictate his love life.
I agree with you. I like Aaron too. But, I think he has commitment phobia.
I think Aaron want to continue his playboy role and Lynn was just one of his playmate collection ,i think Lynn look more like Chinese escort than his life partner.
Maybe Aaron family not like her because she look like a call girl?
@ Kidd, but he’s waaaaaaaay too old to still have commitment phobia. At least George Clooney has been married in the past – and even then, lots of rumours regarding his sexuality.
@ Moses, so what if Lynn is an “escort” like you claim? Isn’t it HIS choice to date her? And how exactly does a call girl look like? Pretty?
Aaron is a great singer–but I have always wonder if he was bi-sexual.
Congratulations to both of them. Reconciliation is a good news, it should be celebrated and acknowledged after going through challenges.
Lynn is approaching her mid 30’s and I think she should hint her boyfriend for marriage proposal. Guys, you should not let a lady to wait for your so called ‘timing’ to prepare. Once youth is gone, its gone.
Aaron is more talented than most artists around the world. He makes money easier than leaves grow on tree. He has millions of fans who idolize everything associated to him. He does not need to settle for less or settle at all. It would be a waste of talent if it was restricted by a marriage unless the girl is very worth it.
Lynn lacks of self respect and is insecure. As a woman, you want your boyfriend to honor you as a girlfriend and is proud to admit you are his dearest. Why waste years when he does not respect you? Only insecure and lack of self respect women can put up with this. I’m sorry for the harsh word but the truth hurts.
Dear Angie, it is easy for you to say that a woman would be feeling insecure and lack of self respect for waiting a guy to propose.
It is hard actually when you are in that position. Waiting for the guy, your love one, whom you’ve been together with for 5 years and above.
@ Angie,
Do you even notice how misogynistic you sound? Aaron is some great catch whom according to you is too good for Lynn and is oh so awesome. Instead of judging him for dating someone he doesn’t really care that much about, you’re saying he deserves better. OTOH, Lynn is a sad, insecure woman who lacks self-respect yada yada yada. So much for feminism.
@advo
I don’t agree with Angie’s analysis, but I don’t believe your assumption that Aaron doesn’t care about Lynn is fair to him either.
I do think that Aaron cares. Why else would he publicly went to dinner with her parents knowing they’re being tailed by the paps and that there would all kinds of speculations in the papers the next day?! I know I sounded like I’m defending Aaron (I’m not even a fan), but I’m having more of a problem with the party that exposed the the private issue to the reporters. It shows lack of respect for the other person and can’t be trusted.
I’m sorry you think it is feminism to not let a man drag you on like an object. My analogy is for modern woman who is strong and independent. If a woman can have as successful career as a man, she wouldn’t need to let the man drag her around. That is simply called self-respect. Long gone the time when women stay home and cook and has to depend on a man to bring home money for food. And the truth is Aaron’s career is so much more successful than Lynn’s, nobody can deny that.
Angie,
You sound really harsh on Lynn. If that is the case, then I wonder how you feel about Andy Lau’s wife, Carol?? She waited over 20+ years for any acknowlegment and married, but she FINALLY got it…. I always felt that Andy loves her a lot, but with Lynn and Aaron… I honestly don’t feel that Aaron loves Lynn as much as Andy loves Carol. Therefore, I don’t feel that it is wrong of Lynn to feel insecure since Aaron is a good catch. But I think Lynn really loves Aaron more than Aaron loves her so she is willing to wait and put up with everything. When you are in love, you don’t usually think rationally and aren’t really yourself anymore… I don’t think that she is disrespecting herself. Lynn herself is a good catch and can go for anyone else too, but she chooses to love and wait for Aaron… I think girls like her are hard to find these days since many girls these days are more aggressive and demand this and that. However, Lynn is simply just asking him to marry her and commit which I don’t think is too much to ask if you have been dating a guy for so many years that you hope to spend the rest of your lives with and have kids…
I don’t know how good of a catch she is. As far as I can see, the good appearance that earns her the paychecks is fake, all plastic surgeries. She does not sound very intelligent when she talks.
Well, it looks like Aaron doesn’t have a problem being in a relationship with her or that it’s public knowledge, so commitment is not an issue to him. He just either not ready or doesn’t want to be married. That’s a personal choice and no one has a right to judge him on that. After all, he’s the one that has to live that life for better or worse. Lynn probably already knows his reluctant on the marriage after 5 years. If it’s important to her, she can lay it out the on the table and ask for a definite answer. If it’s not what she wants, she can walk away. Knowing his “unwillingness” and still blamed him is selfish and stupid on her part. No one should be forced into marriage. Aaron is no exception, regardless of long they’ve dated.
Also, there are so many unmarried couples that seem to be normal and happy; Johnny Depp/Vanessa Paradis(10yrs…, 2children), Oprah/Stedman(20yrs…), Kurt Russell/Goldie Hawn(28yrs and counting), Tim/Susan Sarandon(23yrs…), Angelina/Brad(7yrs…and 6 kids). So, don’t much emphasis on the marriage. I’m not saying it’s not important, but it’s not everything in a relationship. Lynn is letting theirs differences known publicly and let the papparazzies turn it into a circus. If I was Aaron, I’ll dump her azzz just to get out of the mess and not give a chance to play “victim”.
I don’t quite agree with what you are saying, but we all have different views…. I personally think marriage is important, however, that’s just what I think. If you love the person enough, then it won’t take any extra hair off your back to marry them. I believe that’s the least you can do to someone that you claim to love and want to spend the rest of your life with. If you don’t, I think there is something wrong… I am not sure about all of your examples, but with Brad and Angelina, they are still thinking of marriage and do want it eventually so I can see that they know the value of it. If marriage meant nothing, then I don’t think anyone would practice it anymore.
I do sort of agree that Lynn should not force Aaron, however, she also can’t wait forever either. Her parents are old and her biological clock is ticking and she wants to have kids. But I think that if he doesn’t eventually commit and marry her, then she should just walkaway while she can instead of waste his time and her time…
” I am not sure about all of your examples, but with Brad and Angelina, they are still thinking of marriage and do want it eventually so I can see that they know the value of it. If marriage meant nothing, then I don’t think anyone would practice it anymore.”
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Brad and Angie said that they’re thinking about because their kids are asking the “why” because they see their friends’ parents are married and it confuses them that their parents are not. It is more important to the kids than to Brad&Angie. They have made it pretty clear that they already feel married with or without the actual piece of paper.
I’m not anti-marriage and I never made light and said that it’s not important. However, I do believe that both parties have to want to be married. In this case, Aaron obviously does not (for whatever reasons), then he shouldn’t have to, until it feels right for him. Who knows, it could be never, but that’s just my point; Lynn obviously knows this already. While being with him and whining about it is just pathetic. If I was him, I would run out of that relationship so fast, I’ll leave skidmarks on her.
And to say that if he loves her then he should just give in and marry her is just crazy. Because the same thing could be said about her, if she loves him, why can’t she just be happy with the way things are for as long as they’re both being exclusive and happy?! Maybe their values are different, or simply that the clock is ticking and she’s not getting younger and feels the pressure of needing to be married. Either way, it’s more of her problem than his.
He might be like Jackie Chan who’s already had kid but we just don’t know (i’m just guessing lol)that is why he don’t want to get marry Lynn.
Guys who doesn’t marry their partners and have kids are eventually guys who dislike the difficulties in divorcing.
Veejay, i have to agree with you. not only that, celebrities don’t want to suffer emotionally and cause negative public news to ruin their careers.
Just saw the news that Oguri Shun and Yamada Yu is going to get married tomorrow (Mar 14).
I notice that HK celebs seem to delay their marriage and only get married when the woman got pregnant, or they get married and hide it. But celebs in other countries have not problem getting married early or announce their marriage publicly. Korea, Japan, Mainland, the celebs don’t need to hide their relationship and they also marry young.
Not quite true. In Japan there are those who will parade in their wedding dress in press conference BUT many does not reveal anything until they signed on the dotted line. The latter seems to be the trend these days.
Mainland China is usually the case where married even before they got famous. So that isn’t a problem. Maybe everyone should be like Raymond Wong?
I don’t know many China actors. But, I know Liu Ye, Lu Yi and Deng Chao married after they got famous. Deng Chao married not long after HSDS and Detective Dee. So, he was pretty popular and famous at that time. Even nominated for HK Film Award. These actors don’t feel the need to hide their relationship or delay their marriage to ‘concentrate on work’.
Does anybody know when Wen Zhang got married? Was it before or after he become one of China’s most influential young actor?
@ Masaharu
I checked wikipedia and it said Ma Yili has been his wife since 2008.
Has he become famous by then?
Maybe there’s a difference between well known and famous? And maybe these may not have married by then but have been dating before that for a long time with the same woman?
What the difference between well-known and famous?
Funn, I said I notice China celebs married young. You said they usually married before they got famous, so, not a problem. Then I show you examples of celebs who married when they are famous and you go and question the distinction between famous and well-known?
Whether they have been dating the same woman or not does not matter and is not the matter. The fact remains they married at the height of their career and have no fear of letting people know, unlike HK celebs. That’s my point. HK celebs dated for ages but still refuse to admit and dated for many years and still refuse to get married because career come first. HK celebs seem to fear that marriage will affect their career/popularity. Mainland celebs don’t have this fear.
There is a difference. Well known simply means they are well known. Famous is a different ball game altogether. Many artistes are well known, not many are famous.
Yeah and why China artists doesnt seem to be afraid of letting others know of their status? It just shows how shallow the hkers can be when it come to accepting their idol’s marriage news..
Does these hkers think as an idol/superstar/whatsoever mustn’t get married? and forever must be single just to fulfill their teenage or whatever fantasy in their mind? lol
Wen Zhang and Ma Yili got married on 2008 and their son is 2 years old now.
Ma Yili was famous than Wen Zhang when they got married but now Wen Zhang is getting more fame. When they got married, Wen Zhang isn’t a big name at all.
Wikipedia said Wen Zhang and Ma Yili has a daughter.
Kidd,
Hrmm wiki mentioned that Wen’s name started to rise up in 2007 to 2008 due to some hit TV dramas in mainland. Thus, wiki’s information implied that Wen married Ma during his rise to fame.
According to wiki, yeah Wen and Ma have a daughter.
Fox, perhaps you’re quite right. Wiki indirectly implied that Wen married Ma *during* his rise to fame.
Shun isn’t really that young :). He is 30. Yu is 28. So they are in the perfect age to get married. THey dated at least 4 years and living together for 3 years.
I like Shun 😀
Big congratulations to the future bride and groom.