Theresa Fu Exposes Getting Beaten Up By Him Law
Theresa Fu (傅穎) had always denied ever dating Him Law (羅仲謙). But yesterday before heading to Beijing for a career advancement, Theresa admitted her romance with Him for the very first time. Within this one and a half year, they have broken up and patched up several times. Theresa went on to expose that Him had three other girlfriends (other than herself) all at one time and even hit her last month!
It was known that Him’s third and fourth girlfriends were women from the entertainment circle. In order to protect his reputation, Him quickly held a press conference and announced that he had a dispute with Theresa over her checking of his cellphone and thus believed that her injury was caused during their scuffle with each other.
Theresa professed that she’s advancing her career and “settling down” at Beijing for a long time going forward. Yesterday when Theresa attended a fashion event, she was asked about her Weibo messages which hinted that she was heartbroken and violently treated. Theresa showed signs of revealing but stopped herself. After some persistent asking, she finally said, “I don’t want to give people opportunities to say that I’m contradicting or ambiguous and that I’m trying to give myself publicity. I will always have my misgivings when I want to say anything but every word that I said is truthful, from the heart. Anyway, I’m just emotionally and physically scarred.” Theresa revealed that she’s heading to Beijing to put down this emotional baggage, “I don’t wish to torture myself mentally, I just wanted to rant about my feelings and release the knot in my heart and definitely not to publicize myself.”
Not The First Time Being Betrayed
With a grievous face, Theresa said, “This dating matter happened when I was releasing my solo album. I was together with Him Law. We broke apart for more than one time. Being betrayed (by him) for more than one time, this relationship left me emotionally and physically hurt. Being a girl, what passed has passed, I don’t wish to think about it and talk about it everyday.” (Reporter: When did the both of you get together?) “Him Law and I dated for one and a half years. We started in the year 2010 but I didn’t know he already had a steady girlfriend then. I don’t wish to stoop so low and torture myself mentally. The worst mistake I have committed was to be together with Him Law and to discover that he had betrayed me, he didn’t spilt up with his steady girlfriend at all and even dated two other girls too, it was devastating to me. My heart was broken and I was also physically hurt.”
When asked whether she was hit by Him Law, Theresa paused for a while before saying, “Someone asked me (about my bruises) and I said that I hurt myself when I fell down, it was already in the past.” (Reporter: So you are trying to say Him Law did use his hand to hit you?) “In any case, the injuries were not incurred from falling down.” (Why did Him hit you?) “Because I saw through him and exposed him.” [Theresa implied that she saw through him and learnt that he had three other girlfriends besides her.] (Reporter: Have you ever contemplated reporting this to the police?) “I never thought about it. I don’t want to give people the impression that I’m trying to create a topic for myself out of nowhere. For now I am not releasing any autobiography or any albums, I just want to get rid of my emotional baggage before I leave Hong Kong for Beijing. I don’t want to mention this person’s name ever again.”
When asked whether the previous time they patched was because Him Law self-professed that he had already broken up with his steady girlfriend, Theresa responded, “Yes. My worst mistake was to ever be together with Him. I feel reproachful.” (When did you guys officially break up?) “We split ways the previous year. After separating for a month, we reconciled and got together again. We officially broke up last month.” (When did Him Law hit you?) “He hit me last month. The real reason we broke apart was because I discovered that he had other girlfriends (apart from me) so we ended up arguing over this.” (Did he punch you? Or did he use any weapons?) “He didn’t use any weapons.” It was known that Him Law’s third and fourth girlfriends are women from the entertainment circle.
Alerted Friends Of The Opposite Gender
Theresa Fu’s sudden exposure of her love-hate relationship with Him Law caught their management company, Filmko, [Theresa and Him belonged to the same management company] unaware and left them in chaos. Filmko cancelled Him Law’s scheduled work on the new TVB medical drama, On Call 36 Hours <On Call 36小時> and immediately arranged for Him to return to the office and hold a press conference.
Yesterday afternoon at 5 PM, Him Law wore an all-black outfit, looking solemn and carried watery eyes when he appeared. Him first let out a sigh before saying in a trembling voice, “Previously, I didn’t handle this too well. However, I really cherished the love between us. Thus, I went to find her to patch back together. It looked as if our relationship had a chance of blossoming again. Before long, we had gotten back with each other. However, the lack of mutual trust only grew bigger every day and had even alerted friends of the opposite gender. One time, she checked my phone and made a huge ruckus. She was very emotional and made a lot of movements (“danced in anger”). I wanted to think of something to curb and restrain her maybe that’s when I accidentally hurt her. After that, we discovered we had no faith in each other. It would be hard to get along together with each other so we decided to break up.”
After his speech, Him Law displayed a grieved expression of wanting to cry but not a single drop of tears flowed down from his eyes. Asked whether he would apologize to Theresa and express his regret, his manager, Miss Lee, interjected that Him had to rush to filming and excused themselves to evade the question. After which, Him went to the North District Hospital to start on his filming work. After shooting for an hour, he went to Kowloon Bay first to take his car and drove back to his residence in Tai Po.
It was known that after the two of them had reconciled with each other, Theresa often checked Him Law’s phone records. If she discovered that members of the opposite sex had called him, she would immediately redial that number and ask that person about her relationship with Him. Whereas friends around Him Law defended him and said that they don’t believe that Him would use his hand to hit anyone and felt that it was probably a jostling accident due to the misunderstanding.”
Him Law’s and Theresa Fu’s Management Company Extremely Displeased
It was known that Theresa and Him’s management company, Filmko Entertainment Ltd, did not know about their previous reconciliation prior to the “physical beating” claims. Filmko was extremely displeased regarding this matter and decided to cancel all of Theresa’s Beijing jobs, thus incurring speculations that Theresa was about to be “frozen” by them.
The reporter called up the management company’s spokesperson, Miss Lee, in a quest to verify matters. When asked about the rumors that Theresa would be facing the plight of being “frozen” by them, Miss Lee responded “No, not ‘frozen.’ As this was a matter that took us by surprise and Theresa had, unknown to us, self-exposed to the press that she was hit by Him Law, the company doesn’t know what is going on. We so wanted her to remain in Hong Kong first until she has settled and addressed matters. Thus her flight to Beijing today has been cancelled.”
Asked whether Theresa was heading to Beijing for a career advancement, Miss Lee responded, “Yes. Filmko Entertainment has a branch in Beijing. Earning renminbi is the profitable trend now. Since the company saw that Theresa’s jobs on hand at Hong Kong were completed, thus we gave her the opportunity to develop her career in Beijing and rented a room for her and arranged for her to meet the producers and to promote herself.” When asked whether Theresa’s work would have any changes, Miss Lee said that she didn’t know and that she had to understand the entire incident before announcing anything. Asked whether they would announce if Theresa was “frozen,” Miss Lee expressed that she has to know the big picture first.
Boss Wang Haifeng Angrily Criticized: “Someone Was Not Obedient”
Filmko Entertainment’s boss, Wang Haifeng (王海峰), used Weibo to angrily criticize Theresa for not listening to him, “Personal matters should be handled personally. I said a lot of times not to them discuss openly. If anything happens, reflect back to the company but this time. It happened under no knowledge of the company. Someone did not even listen to me, so I also won’t bother either.”
Emotionally And Physically Hurt; Reveals Hints On Weibo
On the night of August 18, 2011, Theresa Fu hinted signs of getting treated violently on her Weibo blog, “I exposed his betrayal and suffered under his violence which left streaks of bruises. He said that it was my fault. Actually my biggest mistake was to be upset over this person.”
Actually, as early as July 27th, Theresa had already shown signs of getting abused when she uploaded a photo of her leg injury on Weibo and an accompanying message beside it, “This pain and these marks will fade away with time, regardless of whether it is physically or emotionally. The bruises on my leg has yet to go away; my heart has anxiously toughen up.”
Besides that, in November 2010, Theresa expressed over Weibo that she was crudely stepped on the foot by Him Law during filming. In recent months, she often revealed her take on love via Weibo, mocking herself for being ignorant in picking men and hinted that her other half often flirted outside and lied to her thus receiving supportive messages from quite a few netizens.
When Him Law the Wolf meets Theresa Fu Little Red Riding Hood
Theresa Fu and Him Law claimed that after their rumors in June 2010, their romance together was very sweet. Unfortunately, due to boyfriend Him Law having several other girlfriends while dating her, their relationship soured as a result. The day before yesterday, Theresa Fu even confessed that Him Law had violently treated her.
June 2010
Due to collaborating on a movie last year, Theresa Fu and Him Law were both rumored to be together by newspaper reports last June. After which, they seized the opportunity to get involved with each other, both of them even professed that they didn’t mind teaming up together as a couple to earn appearance fees. Theresa and Him also often flirted with each other publicly and praised each other. Soon, they were photographed going to the sea together thus bringing this relationship to light.
December 2010
Theresa and Him attended a public event but did not talk to each other. Theresa even stressed that she was just colleagues with Him Law and said, “I have known him for so long but he hasn’t spoken anything true to me!” Afterwhich, both of them zipped their lips with regarding this matter.
January 2011
Upon discovering Him Law had a mainland girlfriend while dating herself, Theresa was enraged and thus the pair temporarily separated. During an event, when mentioned about her relationship with Him Law, Theresa used the fable of the “Wolf” and “Little Red Riding Hood” to describe her cheated feelings but was later rumored to be “frozen” by her company due to her big mouth.
No Time Limit In Reporting Violence To The Police
At an event yesterday, Theresa Fu revealed that she was hit by ex-boyfriend, Him Law, in the past. Although this matter has passed for almost a month now, lawyer Daniel Wong Kwok Tung (黃國桐) pointed out that regardless of how long ago the violent incident occurred, the victim can still report it to the police. He also said that if sued in court and there was no blood sustained in the injury, it would be considered as a common assault crime. If not, it would be considered as an aggravated assault crime (bodily injury where a drop of blood outside the wound would be sufficient to convict a person of the crime).
At the press conference, Him admitted that he only accidentally held onto Theresa “too tightly” after she checked his cellphone and made huge gestures. Lawyer, Daniel Wong, replied that regardless of the reason involved, one cannot use it as a reason to hit anybody. However, Him Law can sue Theresa for invasion of privacy.
Source: Orientaldaily.on.cc
This article was translated by Ah K, a Contributing Writer at JayneStars.com.
Ah K: Judging from these reports, I would lean towards Theresa’s accusation of Him Law allegedly hitting her because I don’t see any reason why Theresa would risk giving up her career, her future prospects at Beijing and risk being “frozen” by her company in order to conjure up this big fat lie.
Since Him Law didn’t deny Theresa’s other accusation of having three other girlfriends (besides her), I assume that this must be true and an interesting lead we received from Theresa was that Him Law’s third and fourth girlfriends are from the entertainment industry too. Wonder who? My guess would be one of them could probably perhaps be Mandy Wong (黃智雯) who acted as a couple with him on “Suspects In Love”《搜下留情》, I don’t know why but their acting of liking each other seemed too real for fiction to me or maybe it’s just that Mandy Wong’s acting was superb in that show.
From the timeline reports that Theresa was furious upon hearing rumors of Him Law having a girlfriend back in the Mainland, I assumed that that Mainland girlfriend might be Him’s first steady girlfriend since the second was Theresa while the third and fourth ones were from the entertainment industry, which could explain why Theresa was so fury with anger because from that rumor, she probably realized that Him did not break up with that said girlfriend as he claimed.
Anyway, even if Theresa filed a police report, I doubt the police will be able to do much to convict Him of the alleged crime, since the wound would have already faded and any skin fragments that can be found in the wound would have been washed off by now. Unless they do a very “CSI” thing and measure the impact by Him’s hand and compare it against the impact caused on the skin.
Also, Him’s excuse of accidentally hurting Theresa thus causing the injury is lame, even if one scuffles, the bruises will most likely appear on the hands or arms but not on the leg. In any case, violence against a defenseless woman is seriously an intimidating act that shouldn’t be tolerated whatever the reason, a man’s hitting of a woman is always wrong!
Hi @Jayne!
Thanks for editing and posting this up so soon!
Haha, sorry for being a perfectionist nazi but I think there’s some error here heh!
“regardless of how long ago the violent occurred, the victim can still report it to the police”
I think it should be “violence” instead of “violent” yes yes? 😀
Thank you in advance! 😀
Ah K,
I meant to type “violent incident” to allude to the “one time” occurrence of this violent act. Have made the correction.
@Jayne:
Oops I see, haha, thanks for making the correction so quickly though! 😀
Ah K,
“Since Him Law didn’t deny Theresa’s other accusation of having three other girlfriends (besides her), I assume that this must be true and an interesting lead we received from Theresa was that Him Law’s third and fourth girlfriends are from the entertainment industry too.”
I do believe that Him Law cheated in the relationship while dating Theresa. He did not deny this claim at the press conference, so it’s guilty by silent admission.
As to their argument and physical scuffle, it’s still a little unclear as to what happened and the extent of her bruises, aside from the leg bruise she revealed on her blog. Him admitted to holding onto Theresa too tight. Perhaps he pushed or shoved her, causing her leg injury. It is hard to say what he could have done in anger. At least he did not appear to slap her on the face, as no bruises on her face.
Let’s see if there will be additional interviews that will shed more light on the dispute and what occurred.
@Jayne:
“I do believe that Him Law cheated in the relationship while dating Theresa. He did not deny this claim at the press conference, so it’s guilty by silent admission.”
I think likewise too! Furthermore, with Him Law’s hot bod, I think he could be some kind of babe magnet with girls willing to flock over to his arms lol! 😀
“It is hard to say what he could have done in anger.”
I agree, especially since Him used to be a lifeguard and he was preparing to be a policeman, his force must be quite hard.
“Let’s see if there will be additional interviews that will shed more light on the dispute and what occurred.”
Hopefully there will be, but Theresa has allegedly been officially “frozen” by her company so doubt she can say anymore to the press. Lol but I want to know the identities of the other two women in the entertainment circle! 😛
Him has a hot body. It’s normal that women flock over him despite him having a girlfriend. Theresa could be an insecure control freak woman and keep checking his phone all the time and made him mad.
Or Him could really be a two-timer and cheater.
@Vivien:
“Theresa could be an insecure control freak woman and keep checking his phone all the time and made him mad.”
I do think so too that she sounds a little too panaroid and crazy for invading his phone privacy but if he didn’t do anything wrong or hide anything from her in the first place, he shouldn’t be scared or angry with Theresa for checking his phone cause in the end, she will probably be just wasting her own time. And of course he had reason to be scared and angry, he had three other hidden girlfriends.
*I meant hid not hide!
Even if Him is cheating or grabbed her too hard Theresa doesn’t seem like an elegant calm woman either by airing all the dirty laundry of her relationship to the press and asking for attention. A calm dignified woman would settle it in an elegant and sophisticated manner off the press and through the law.
I agree with you Vivien. I think that Him did cheat and all and maybe he did hurt her, but I don’t think it may be as bad as she says it is.I am a woman and all, but I really hate it when women accuse men of this and that just because they accidently hit them or hurt them even in the slightest little way that did not even injure them. However, they would immediately accuse him of beating her and then would call the police to get the guy arrested. I saw many cases of that, even on TV. There are times when it is the woman that hits the man, but whom do they arrest?? The guy since they always assume it is the guy that does all the physical abuse even when at times it is the women that does it.
Even though Him is a jerk for cheating and maybe phyisically hurting her, she doesn’t seem like a nice and sweet girl either… She airs all of her dirty laundry out for others to see… That is not a good move either…What is the point of her cussing and screaming about how bad Him is front of the press and public? It makes her look really bad too.
” That is not a good move either…What is the point of her cussing and screaming about how bad Him is front of the press and public? It makes her look really bad too.”
Well, I don’t think making herself look good is her priority. I think she goes with her feeling.
Ah K, there can be accidental violence. It is whether whose story you believe but it seems to be a minor incident overblown and bruises can appear if one if held too tightly, without the need of being punched. I would imagine he yanked and held onto her arm.
Just because she has everything to lose to make such a report, doesn’t mean she is to be believed. A woman scorned can be pretty petty and in the end her aim is to drag him through the mud and hurt his reputation.A scorned woman wouldn’t realise she is in the end destroying her own credibility.
I would believe her more if she was consistent; instead of rushing to the press and make such allegations as if for the media to judge Him, I would believe her more if she handled it with more quiet dignity; meaning going to the police, lodge a report, insisted on an investigation and then go to the media.
Just because time has passed doesn’t mean the police can’t investigate. Not everything is as obvious as a bruise and CSI is overrated. A lot of conviction does not involve direct evidence. There could be testimonies, etc.
Frankly I am leaning towards Him. Why after 1 month not a single report?Why go to the media instead of police? Him himself can sue her for defamation, all the stories show how scorned and jealous she was.
I am a woman, and I know a woman can be in an abusive relationship, whether physically or emotionally but somehow in her case, I have my suspiscion if she prefers PR over justice.Right now I feel she is more into destroying his reputation than anything else unless more evidence emerged.
All we know is it was a one time occurence, occured during a heated argument with probably a hysterical woman and a very pissed off man. Anything could have happened. Him can say she provoked him. No man is a saint, no woman is an angel. How it occured on the leg can be a lot of reason.
“violence against a defenseless woman is seriously an intimidating act that shouldn’t be tolerated whatever the reason, a man’s hitting of a woman is always wrong!”
True but the woman wasn’t defenceless. I don’t think it is always wrong. Frankly there are some women I want to hit myself. Is Theresa the hysterical kind? If Him the violent sort? If he was supposedly violent to her, he may have been violent to others, so until I see a pattern, I shall not judge him unduly. Remember, she can always rebuild her reputation, but once a man losses his especially due to allegations of rape, abuse, violence, etc, any of these, it will be forever.
Agree with Funn. Why she wait until now to tell and why tell to the press and not the pilice? She appears to want publicity but this just make her look stupid. Him coud jsut be accidentally be rough on her since he has a stronger body and doesn’t mean to be violent. Just because she risk being frozen doesn’t mean she’s telling the truth. If she’s the truth why is their friends backing Him and the boss whole heartedly support only Him?
“I would believe her more if she was consistent; instead of rushing to the press and make such allegations as if for the media to judge Him, I would believe her more if she handled it with more quiet dignity; meaning going to the police, lodge a report, insisted on an investigation and then go to the media.”
So, there is only one way to handle such matter? If she handles it other way, that means she’s lying and unbelievable?
No, it makes her story less credible.
@Funn Lim:
“I would believe her more if she was consistent; instead of rushing to the press and make such allegations as if for the media to judge Him, I would believe her more if she handled it with more quiet dignity; meaning going to the police, lodge a report, insisted on an investigation and then go to the media.”
I agree with you on this, as I said in my earlier comment in “Kate Tsui : I cannot accept a long distance relationship!” thread, I do have my doubts too on why Theresa didn’t make a police report and chose to publicize it and make herself look like the victim. (http://www.jaynestars.com/news/kate-tsui-i-cannot-accept-a-long-distance-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-36754)
“Not everything is as obvious as a bruise and CSI is overrated.”
Haha I know CSI is overrated cause the real forensic experts say that some of the machines used in CSI doesn’t exist in the real world but I love CSI! Lmao, okay I’m just a sadist who loves watching bloody and gory stuff.
“Him himself can sue her for defamation, all the stories show how scorned and jealous she was.”
I certainly hope he does so to prove his innocence and give us a clearer indication on what really happened.
“True but the woman wasn’t defenceless. I don’t think it is always wrong. Frankly there are some women I want to hit myself. Is Theresa the hysterical kind? If Him the violent sort?”
You know what, when I was typing my thought to this incident, I was thinking, “What if Theresa had cursed and swear at his family with profanities included? Then it is understandable for Him to hit her but then it would mean in a twisted way that men who hit women can be condoned, which I don’t think is right considering that some women stay in a domestic violence relationship because of the blind love and good erm intercourse and the men just continue hitting them knowing very well that they will stay.
Other than giving Him lots of benefit of doubt, people here seems to also trying to find justification for him hurting Theresa physically if it’s true by putting the blame on Theresa being insecure, control freak, hysterical, jealous and scorned.
I do not believe just because woman + being hit = victim. I want to know the full story. The same sort of benefit of doubt I will give to a woman who has thrown an ashtray onto the man’s head and causing it to bleed.
@Ah K “I certainly hope he does so to prove his innocence and give us a clearer indication on what really happened.”
I hope he do this. If Theresa is serious about the abuse she will go straight to the police station and not opening her mouth to the press and make big news. That’s why her company is mad at her because she’s publicizing her personal affair. If she’s really abused she should report. If she’s lying Him can really sue her
“I do not believe just because woman + being hit = victim.”
Neither do I.
I’m not siding Theresa because she’s a woman. Not everyone is thinking of full concrete evidence like you do. I feel that a lot of people who gave Him the benefit of the doubt here (and finding justification for him) just do so because of partiality to Him and disliked for Theresa.
@Funn Lim:
Well, although I admit that I do have my misgivings whether the words of a four-timer can be believed but since I also have my doubts on why Theresa didn’t call the cops on Him Law there and chose to publicize it, I’m officially giving Him the “innocent until proven guilty” guise regarding this hitting incident.
I’m also giving Him the ‘innocent until proven guilty’ doubt. Something is wrong when Theresa didn’t call the cops but after 1 month tell stories to the reporters.
I don’t understand why people assume going to the police is the number 1 thing to do otherwise somehow the scales have tipped against you. Most assaults, esp domestic, go unreported for various reasons like fear, emotional attachment, confusion, pressure et. Its unfortunate, but it shouldn’t be used to discredit someone unless you appraise the situation entirely. Passing judgment in the name of being ‘objective’ doesn’t make you more discerning here, just hasty.
Also, there are many good reasons why she’s only coming out with it now in addition to those for not reporting, such as the backing of her company. If she is as spiteful, hating and crazy as some believe, she would’ve blown the issue up straight away.
And who came up with the unspoken rule that one must deal with being assaulted ‘elegantly, quietly and in a procedurally efficient manner conducive to justice’? Blah. Misguided. Her making a mess of the situation doesn’t mean it makes her less credible- I mean, does she strike you as a particularly smart individual?
Look at it this way, regardless if an assault occurred, she can’t prove it anymore + her company ain’t backing her so she’s at a loss. For Him, his reputation is smeared slightly but since he hasn’t really denied things or approached ‘justice’ via a defamation action then by a lot of people’s logic, he is less credible too. In the end, both lose. Whether either is innocent or somehow guilty, both have lessons to learn- such is life. Now everyone move along and do not pretend your ‘interpretations’ of the ‘facts’ is some how justified on any reasoned criteria cause its not.
@ SDS
I agree with you.
Another reason Theresa might not report is she might not want to go through the hassle of going to court, dragging the case forever etc or she just doesn’t like to deal with the police. There could be a lot of reason.
Just because one doesn’t deal with the situation the ‘proper way’ doesn’t mean what she said is untrue.
I disagree. The longer you take, the more unfavourable it looks to you, even in court. And if she tweeted or posted the picture of her bruises before, it shows to me she is more into showing everyone what happened merely to smear his name rather than seeking justice the proper way. Yes Kidd, there is a proper way to do thing. Her credibility to me is suspect. Need to see her motive. Won’t be surprised if news come out that she caught him in bed with another girl, etc which explains why after ONE MONTH she is now so willing to tell everyone what happened. And may I stress, this is one time assault if there is any assault, and I don’t believe that a man can never lay his hands on any woman, period. I believe in no one can never lay his or her hands on anyone else, period.
“Also, there are many good reasons why she’s only coming out with it now in addition to those for not reporting, such as the backing of her company. If she is as spiteful, hating and crazy as some believe, she would’ve blown the issue up straight away.”
Indeed and since it took her company 1 month to not give their backing, isn’t that weird? The timeline is all off. WHo knows, maybe something did happened between beating and finally revealing to everyone. Again the way she goes about it is just all wrong.
And maybe it is true; that people feeling injustice feels they’re better off posting their misery to the website or press RATHER THAN reporting to the police. I dare her to report Him and allow the investigation to proceed since got testimony, got pictures and if Him should consider suing her to proclaim his innocence.
This is too big a case to ignore the legal avenues.
“she might not want to go through the hassle of going to court, dragging the case forever etc or she just doesn’t like to deal with the police.”
And she expects people to believe her story 100% when a man’s reputation is being slandered and possibly destroyed? Not a good reason and in court the defence will have a great day tearing her apart.
Funn,
I agree that the motive behind Theresa’s airing of the situation after one month is critical. As indicated by her July 27th post, she semi-announced the incident, revealing some details but not all. She wanted others to sympathsize with her, but at the same time she was somewhat “pprotecting” Him but not coming forth entirely at the time.
Women who are physically hit by their boyfriends and husbands may sometimes still want to “protect” these men due to emotional attachment. It may sound crazy, but despit the cheating and hitting (especially if it is a one time incident or “accidental” hitting driven by emotional circumstances), do you stop loving that man immediately after that incident? First comes the sense of betrayal, anger, disappointment, etc.. but it takes some time to sort through the conflicting feels.
For a woman to come forward and report that a spouse or boyfriend beat her usually involves some for consideration, due to need to sort out conflicting feelings and willingness to face the consequences of her actions. By filing police report, she has to let go of her former love and tendency to protect that individual and let the legal authorities take over. Such legal allegations, if proven true, can ruin a man forever, whether he is an artist or not.
Due to the conflicting emotional turmoil ofthe victims of loved ones, perhaps that is why there is no time limit to report these violent acts.
The testimonies of Theresa’s friends, if she confided in them, may shed more light on her motivation to report incident after 1 month and whether the wait was due to her “protection” of him or spiked by an event that occurred sincefighting for the cell phone.
I would also like to see if there are additional bruises other than those on her legs. The isolated spots on her knee and ankle area seem to resemble bruises from falling on her knee and perhaps knocking her ankle against furniture. Did Him push her too hard leading to fall? If he kicked her, wouldn’t there be more bruise marks spread all over? Also not very intuitive for person to kick another’s knee area.
Amigo Chui’s ex, Elizabete Kwong, had bruise marks on her throat, which seemed to be more indicative of an attack of intent.
“And she expects people to believe her story 100% when a man’s reputation is being slandered and possibly destroyed? Not a good reason and in court the defence will have a great day tearing her apart.”
Not a good reason to you, but, still strong enough reason for someone to not report to the police.
“And if she tweeted or posted the picture of her bruises before, it shows to me she is more into showing everyone what happened merely to smear his name rather than seeking justice the proper way. “
This could be her way to seek justice. She want to let people know what he did but didn’t want to damage him to the extend of sending him to jail.
“Yes Kidd, there is a proper way to do thing.
No. When it comes to situation like this, there is no ‘proper’ way to do thing. Different people react and handle things differently.
“Won’t be surprised if news come out that she caught him in bed with another girl, etc which explains why after ONE MONTH she is now so willing to tell everyone what happened. And may I stress, this is one time assault if there is any assault, and I don’t believe that a man can never lay his hands on any woman, period. I believe in no one can never lay his or her hands on anyone else, period.”
“Won’t be surprised if news come out that she caught him in bed with another girl, etc which explains why after ONE MONTH she is now so willing to tell everyone what happened. “
So, you agree that she’s telling everyone what happened and not creating stories?
“. And may I stress, this is one time assault if there is any assault, and I don’t believe that a man can never lay his hands on any woman, period. I believe in no one can never lay his or her hands on anyone else, period.”
One time assault is still assault and it still did happen.
“I believe in no one can never lay his or her hands on anyone else, period.”
It’s ok for a husband to beat his wife and vice-versa? It’s ok for a husband to beat his wife in anger and then apologise and all is sweet and good?
“And maybe it is true; that people feeling injustice feels they’re better off posting their misery to the website or press RATHER THAN reporting to the police. I dare her to report Him and allow the investigation to proceed since got testimony, got pictures and if Him should consider suing her to proclaim his innocence.”
Maybe she didn’t want him to go to jail?
Lastly, Jayne’s analysis is very sound.
Kidd, there are some punishments than going to jail. And if you agree with her method, then everybody will take “law” into their own hands and just spread such stories online instead of going to proper forum.
There is a proper way; proper way is to report to police, and then go to public. But guess what? If you report to police and then say so many things in public, assuming in between Him is arrested and on trial, she would be under a gag order. Not very ideal solution to her then isn’t it?
Max damage is not always jail when you story couldn’t hold up in court. Which is why Him should sue her for defamation and the fact he doesn’t, could either be he doesn’t want to make a big issue out of it or he did do what she said he did.
I didn’t say she is not to believed or he is innocent; I am saying her conduct make her less believable.
And what I meant by what I wrote is no one should be allowed to hit anybody else. So if Theresa was the first to pull the first punch, then Theresa is as guilty.
Although provocation is a defence for murder, it can also be a mitigating factor. Just because you hit a child one time doesn’t make you a child abuser. Just because he hit or whatever he did to her one time, doesn’t make him a violent boyfriend.
“Women who are physically hit by their boyfriends and husbands may sometimes still want to “protect” these men due to emotional attachment. ”
True, and usually this applies to abused wives or girlfriends which indicate repeated abuse for a number of time. One time, one incident, if the woman leaves, then this usually doesn’t apply.
Like I said, like it or not, she would be shredded in court over her story which may or may not be true. Whatever it may be, the time, the motive, the timing, her conduct, all is a suspect. Just because she says it so, doesn’t mean it is so. Just because he denied it so, doesn’t mean it didn’t happen. As long as these 2 doesn’t bring this to court, her credibility is under suspect, his reputation will be under attack.
“Maybe she didn’t want him to go to jail?”
How considerate of her. I am sure Him appreciates her yapping to the press and posting pictures without due proof or investigation
Don’t tell me you believe that cr*p of “I don’t want him to go to jail” and then “Oh by the way, blogging my bruises pictures…”
These 2 needs to settle this in court. Damage has been done.
“I didn’t say she is not to believed or he is innocent; I am saying her conduct make her less believable.”
Please, all your comment so far has put the blame solely on Theresa.
– she go to the public instead of to the police, she’s not credible
– So if Theresa was the first to pull the first punch, then Theresa is as guilty.
– She’s slandering Him
Your stand is giving Him the benefit of the doubt and putting the fault on Theresa with lots of assumption like she’s the first to pull to punch, she did it out of malice because she found Him cheating while Him is the poor innocent guy who lost his temper ONE TIME ONLY because his girlfriend went hysterical.
It all boils down to Theresa is the one at fault.
@ Funn
How considerate of her. I am sure Him appreciates her yapping to the press and posting pictures without due proof or investigation
She might feel it’s the lesser of ‘evil’.
Why are you going to extreme now?
Either she’s quietly suffering and bearing it all like a saint or go all out and put him to jail?
Kidd, so were you. You put the blame on Him without giving him benefit of the doubt. She took 1 month to reveal her story, she has a reason. She didn’t go to the police, she has her reason. You see her as the victim, you see her without motive, you don’t question her lateness, her eagerness to flaunt this online, her lack of respect for authorities, you see her way as getting justice as valid and reasonable. You seem to be 100% justifying everything she does too. It all boils down, per your quote but I change the last words to everything she does has her reason, let’s not suspect her, let’s not question her, she is the victim, he is the man, she said he hit her, then he hit her, period.
I am not in the extreme nor am I saying “Either she’s quietly suffering and bearing it all like a saint or go all out and put him to jail?”
I would never ask any abused women to quietly suffer and bear it all and I’ve never said it. I am saying if he did what she said he did the way she said he did for the reasons she said he did it, then stop talking to the press and go to the police. By her lack of eagerness to report to the police suggest to me once the case is investigated and brought to court, her story has no bearing. Both of them should go to the police and let them do their job. All these airing of such serious allegations on the web, in blog, uploading pictures.. not every person should or is a star in their own reality show. She wants to be believed? Take the proper forum. Sue him for compensation, anything. She is not time barred. The longer she waits and yet cry all about it with it being ONE incident, the more I suspect. And yes even how many incidents matter. If more women walk out and says he hit them, then there is a behaviroul pattern. Just because she is a woman, she got hit, doesn’t mean that’s case closed, guilty as charged. I am not saying she is the one, the blamed one but I am pointing out my reservation and in legal speak it means I question her motive and I question her reason. And if revenge is the motive, then I would suspect even more.
Kidd, so were you. You put the blame on Him without giving him benefit of the doubt.
Yes, I believe Theresa more, not because Theresa said so, but, because of Him’s response. The way he responded on the press conference.
But, I also believe it’s not a constant occurance, but, an isolated case.
She took 1 month to reveal her story, she has a reason…you see her way as getting justice as valid and reasonable. You seem to be 100% justifying everything she does too.
I do this just as a counter argument for your ‘she didn’t elegantly go to the police, she must be lying’ stand. I’m not justifying everything she does. Just pointing out the possible reasons for her not doing it the standard way you approved of.
And I’m just annoyed with conclusion ‘she didn’t go to the police first, she must be doing it for publicity’.
It all boils down, per your quote but I change the last words to everything she does has her reason, let’s not suspect her, let’s not question her, she is the victim, he is the man, she said he hit her, then he hit her, period.
Disagree with this, especially the last sentence. I did not blame Him because he’s an man and Theresa is a woman.
” If more women walk out and says he hit them, then there is a behaviroul pattern. Just because she is a woman, she got hit, doesn’t mean that’s case closed, guilty as charged.”
I repeat. I’m not siding her because she’s a woman.
I’ve read enough of injustice where the man call the police but the man got arrested instead.
I guess we just have different stand base on different belief and what issue concern us most. I do not know what is your belief behind your argument (maybe the ‘people always side with the woman and see the woman as victim in assault case when it’s not always true’ belief). For me, the belief/issue that affect my responses is ‘people tend to disbelieve the words of Theresa because she’s a sexy lengmo (negative image) while Him is generally well-loved.’
This has become quite lengthy. Personally I don’t care for either side, however it stills seems there is a sense that justice can only be sought the ‘legal’ way. Now I’m not advocating vigilante justice, but in a modern world, justice can also be sought spiritually (accepting things, learn from it, move on) or socially (tell the world). It all depends what is appropriate, what you want out of it, what you feel is right etc. As I have said, there should not be an unspoken rule that the law is the only avenue for ‘justice’, whatever that may be. I don’t believe in inflexibility, nor do I believe in anarchism, its all about balanced rationality. Maybe going to the media is ‘justice’ for her, who knows.
As to the length of time, she might have told the company and the company might have just told her to put it on hold, and she’s fed up waiting. There’s nothing wrong with her tacts, its just, at most, stupid. Wrong and stupid are totally different things. Whilst yes, compalining now makes her story suspect, but only because we EXPECT foul play to be publicised ASAP. That’s a very Western approach to conflict, mind you. Instead of saying ‘I do not believe you’, the correct answer is ‘Ok, prove it otherwise there isn’t much we can do’. Its about the attitude you start with.
As for her now going to the police, she probably has her reasons, one of them being – fabrication or exaggeration. But don’t start thinking its easy to prove, cause its not. If the friends weren’t then and there during the assault, no testimony is going to help. It will just be circumstantial evidence. Pictures taken by her are most probably inadmissible as they would not conform to the requirements for calling evidence, as it must usually be done through an expert who inspected the injury, and then took pictures, who will be called as witness. And if Him just cries accident, then the golden rule (reasonable doubt) would most likely acquit him. I mean, unless Him decided to not get a lawyer or get one that had no clue of criminal law, its a no-brainer case to win.
@SDS,
“This has become quite lengthy. Personally I don’t care for either side, however it stills seems there is a sense that justice can only be sought the ‘legal’ way. Now I’m not advocating vigilante justice, but in a modern world, justice can also be sought spiritually (accepting things, learn from it, move on) or socially (tell the world). It all depends what is appropriate, what you want out of it, what you feel is right etc. As I have said, there should not be an unspoken rule that the law is the only avenue for ‘justice’, whatever that may be. I don’t believe in inflexibility, nor do I believe in anarchism, its all about balanced rationality. Maybe going to the media is ‘justice’ for her, who knows.”
This was an insightful read. 🙂
@ SDS
“This has become quite lengthy. Personally I don’t care for either side, however it stills seems there is a sense that justice can only be sought the ‘legal’ way. Now I’m not advocating vigilante justice, but in a modern world, justice can also be sought spiritually (accepting things, learn from it, move on) or socially (tell the world). It all depends what is appropriate, what you want out of it, what you feel is right etc. As I have said, there should not be an unspoken rule that the law is the only avenue for ‘justice’, whatever that may be. I don’t believe in inflexibility, nor do I believe in anarchism, its all about balanced rationality. Maybe going to the media is ‘justice’ for her, who knows.”
I second Chriselle. Very insightful. 😀
SDS, I like your comment 🙂
I agree with Funn that it does make her story less credible. She is not handling this well at all…
It’s tough that you can’t speak your mind and risk being frozen by your company. We will all believe one over the other based on our interpretations of the facts. I think it’s brave for any artist to go against the grain and tell “the truth”. The company only cares about their image and not the well being of the artist. It’s a possibility that Theresa was in shock and denial therefore waited until she had a better handle of things. Yes, she could have filed a police report first then hold a press conference but there’s no law that she can’t do it in reverse order. It is never ok for a man to lay a hand on a woman even if she is the instigator because accidents can happen and men don’t know their own strength. A light arm grab can bruise those who bruise easily. A man could lose out if he lays even a finger on a woman and be known as a woman beater. I think what theresa did wrong was going back to him if her trust was broken.
Thanks ah K for translating the article!
It’s very wrong for any man to hit a woman even though if the woman hits him first or whatever the reason is. A true gentlement would choose to walk away to calm down.
It’s unfair if Theresa’s company is going to freeze her.
Neither should a woman hit a man easily. That’s why I always have problem with TV series showing women slapping a man and everyone is OK with it. It’s like women have a free license to hit a man because she’s the weaker sex, so, has less strength while the man should be tougher.
Totally agree with you Kidd! I don’t think it is right for a man to hit a woman, but it is also very wrong for a woman to hit a man too… That is not right at all. I don’t think that anyone should hit anyone else unless it is in self defense or to save someone else.
What if the guy really deserved it? Still can’t slap?
And is it still Ok for a woman to hit another woman? B/c if you’re gonna ban the b!Tch-slap, I might as well stop watching tvb dramas now.
@Lexi:
Welcome! 😀
“It’s unfair if Theresa’s company is going to freeze her”
Well, to a management company, it is not unfair if she has been disobedient when her albums haven’t been selling well and if she isn’t a money spinner for the company like Him Law. Between these two, from a business perspective, one would bend towards where the wind blows and in this case, the wind = Him Law.
The action of the company is understandable. Theresa has ruined the reputation of another artist’s under it’s label that can potentially earn a lot of money for the company. Secondly, Theresa did the expose without talking to her company first despite the management company telling her more than once to settle private affairs in private. She gave a lot of trouble to the company.
@ah k:
Are you sure Him law earn money that good for his company? I thought he only play supporting roles
@anya
He’s a lead role in many Chrissie Chow movies! Him is pretty famous for his bulky body and his nickname is Giant Chest. He’s definitely more famous and make more money than Theresa
Agree the action of the company to frozen Theresa is understandable. Him is their money making machine
@Anya:
Him Law acted in 3 movies this year, “Beach Spike” opposite Theresa Fu, “Love is the Only Answer” about trading spouses opposite Charmaine Sheh and “The Monkey King” plus he will also be acting in 3 TVB dramas this year, “Dwellings of Men and Women”, “Special Duties Unit” and “36 Hours on Call” so I would say his popularity is fast rising, which probably means higher appearance fees earmed by his management company, definitely more than Theresa who only has one movie out this year, which is “Beach Spike”.
*I meant earn not earm
Thank you two for letting me know. All I know about him is playing supporting roles for Tvb( we all know how Tvb pay) and some supporting roles in movies 🙂
I find this story hard to believe in general. As mentioned by other readers, why is Theresa coming out NOW to tell everyone about the incident? I feel as if she’s doing this to gain media attention since her career isn’t all that big. At the same time, I feel that no matter what the situation is, no man should ever hit a woman. With all the negative news between Him and Theresa, this story seems like a case of attention grabbing in hopes of boosting one’s career.
Lexi,
The article stated that Theresa wrote on her blog on July 27th that she was physically and emotionally hurt, hinting at cheating boyfriend. She showed photo of her bruised leg, but the media apparently did not catch onto story until recently, as Theresa’s blog entries continued to voice her disappointment in HIm.
In addition, she appeared to be torn as whether to expose Him’s “true colors” or keep silent. It appears she wasn’t that decisive, but in the end she felt Him would be served justice for cheating in love and possibly physically hurting her.
@ Jayne
Here’s the weibo entry where Theresa upload the photo of her bruised legs.
http://weibo.com/1640631034/xgCjij4Ym
那些痛和傷痕 會隨著時間淡化 不論是在身上的 還是心上的 腳上的瘀青還未退去 我的心已急不及待要堅強起來了
“It appears she wasn’t that decisive, but in the end she felt Him would be served justice for cheating in love and possibly physically hurting her.”
My thoughts too. I think Theresa did the right thing, and I don’t care if she’s trying to gain media attention. If this is the truth, I hopes she tells it out.
“At the same time, I feel that no matter what the situation is, no man should ever hit a woman.”
I was very surprised by these headlines of Him Law cheating and hitting Theresa. The first one is already unacceptable, but I don’t know what to think of Him as a person anymore. I think Jayne pointed out that Him grew up in a traditional family where the man was always the leader and thus Him felt the pressure?
I don’t know, but I feel that many people are more open-minded now and wouldn’t have anymore of these ‘dai lam yun’ thoughts and attitude. Since Him is a celebrity, I would think he would be more mindful of his actions and be less controlling. Personally, I think men are all controlling to a certain degree and may possess some form of ‘dai lam yun’ attitude, but some are better at controlling it than others. It’s biological.
Theresa’s entry in weibo on 18/8/11
http://weibo.com/1640631034/xk4lleJRc
謊言一遍又一遍聽進心內 是我的錯 給予他一次又一次的機會 是我的錯 揭穿了他的叛背 遭到他暴力對待留下一道道瘀傷 他說是我的錯 他說他從沒害怕我說出來 因他在每個人面前都是完美男人的模範 別人都只會認為是我的錯 其實我最錯的是 為了這個人傷心 因為他 從來不會因傷害到愛他的人而感到愧疚
I guess this was where the whole thing started and got blown up.
@Kidd:
Thank you for posting the entire Weibo tweet by Theresa! Have translated it as follows, should anyone feel interested to read:
“Spinning up lies and lies that I listened to and which entered my heart. It’s my fault. Giving him chances and chances again, it’s my fault. Exposing his betrayal and suffering under his violence which left streaks of bruises. He said that it was my fault. He said that he was never afraid that I would say it out because he was a perfect ideal man in everyone’s eyes. Others would only deem that it was my fault. Actually my biggest mistake was to be upset over this person because he would never feel remorseful about hurting those that loves him.”
Sorry but Theresa doesn’t sound like a sweet or nice girl either. I think they both have problems.However,it is all the past now so why is Theresa still dwelling over it?? Does she really want the attention that badly??
Hmm… I don’t know. I never really liked Theresa or follow her news other than knowing she’s a singer. However, I don’t seem to like Him Law much either (Maybe because he sells his body more than his acting skills and in the last few dramas, he hasn’t given any breakthrough performance either.), especially now with this exposure.
I tried watching the video clip of Him’s press conference and there were many pauses in his speech. More pauses than words from him. It took too long to load due to the slow Internet so I never finished it. But I sense some lying, especially since Jayne said he didn’t deny those claims. Reminds me Cecilia’s rebuttals to Nic. She didn’t deny, but also exposed Nic’s bad side.
Anyway just curious, have you guys ever checked your other half’s cellphone? C’mon fess up, not even once or contemplated thoughts to do so? What do you guys think? Is it okay to check your other half’s handphone? Will you be angry or scared if your handphone was checked instead?
did it once. Other half’s Ex-Gf called and when i asked he lied. Checked cellphone call log and indeed it’s his ex. I don’t mind ex called but don’t lie. Got so mad, and throw his phone.
Is it okay to check your other half’s handphone? Will you be angry or scared if your handphone was checked instead?
depend on the situation, if there is nothing fishy about it i think there;s no point to check it . But normally when the other half act funny when his/her phone ringing in front of you, you might want to check it out. I won’t be angry or scared if my otherhalf suddenly want to check or see my phone since i’ve nothing to hide. But normally when you’ve nothing to hide it will be unlikely your otherhalf will check on you anyway. Of course there is always an exception, Someone who’s more paranoid or insecure might do that regardless.
The above case have no comment. Didn’t know the whole story. Love is a complex thing. That’s why some ppl can even stay in an abusive relationship for years.
I would be angry if someone checked my phone without me knowing. But then I have always had the urge to check the other’s cell….so curious to know… never done it though =P
Honestly it’s very hard to tell who is wrong and right here. Him Law is wrong for beating up a defenceless woman Theresa and it’s always wrong for a man to beat up a woman no matter how irritating the woman can be.
But then again, have anyoen of you met or bump with any difficult woman before? I have. For eg, my sis in law is one of them lol. She never care how tired my bro is, she will keep demand things like asking my bro to drive her everywhere, buy her stuff and even stay at home not working just because she likes it that way.. We’re really tired of her attitude and her constant demand. All i can say is she’s a total b-i-t-c-h, even women will hate her the kind of person.
So my point is if Theresa is that kind of person like I described above, can’t really blame HIm for beating up her but beating is wrong, Him should have tell her to leave or something if he doesn’t want anything to do with Theresa anymore.
Yup yup, always wrong for a man to hit a woman.
Every relationship and marriage have arguments, ups and downs, but should never allow hitting.
Me and my husband argues too, which couples doesn’t. When we come to something we disagree on, we would sit down on the dinner table and talk. If then the talking still can’t solve, and we still argue, my husband would just leave the house. He would drive his car out somewhere for like 30 minutes and be back, by the time he be back he would calm and we continue the talks, LOL!
Maybe Him Law is mad and can’t control his temper at the time so he hit her? Well, if he not happy then just leave her, no need dramas.
It is wrong to beat someone up, but you cannot just blame one person for it. If she knew he cheated on her why would she go back to him? Getting together for the first time was a mistake, but getting back together was a choice.
I honestly don’t think that any of us will ever know the whole and true story. I guess we should not side with anyone… Whenever anyone tells a story in their point of view, they will portray themselves as the victim. But anyways, I still don’t see the point in Theresa telling everyone about this?? It is to gain sympathy? Is it to ruin Him’s reputation?? Is it to gain media attention?? No one really knows…
“But anyways, I still don’t see the point in Theresa telling everyone about this??”
You already list out a few possible point yourself
– to gain sympathy
– to ruin HiM’s reputation
– To gain media attention
Or plainly, just want to let everyone knows her hurt and how ‘bad’ Him is.
Good for her for speaking out. She’s a victim and she should speak out.
It doesn’t matter if she provokes him or not. He should never lay his hands on her or any woman. He’s a man so he’s naturally stronger than her.
Photo of her legs bruises: http://life.mingpao.com/ftp/Life3/20110822/nalma/_22MA012_.jpg
Those are some ugly bruises!
Post in my reply to Jayne earlier. I’ll post it here again since it’s related.
Theresa’s weibo entry where she posted the photo of the bruised legs.
http://weibo.com/1640631034/xgCjij4Ym
Seems like he went pretty far to get his phone back from her. If he really did beat her, then she should report it to the authorities rather then declaring it to the public and media… it’s decreases her credibility.
How do u beat someone on the legs? Shouldn’t she also have bruises on the arms and shoulders where he man-handled her? Did he really karate kick her like in the cartoon depiction or was it an accident?
Nonetheless, I think he’s a cheating sleazeball. And he should’ve learned f/ amigo. There’s no point in grabbing the phone back when you’ve already been busted.
I also think that non of us know the real facts and that we shouldn’t be taking sides. Regarding those bruises on her leg, I agree with Josie, surely if someone hits you then the first place they would think of would be the arms, shoulders and even (God forbid) the face. If someone hit me, the first thing I would do is get the police onto him as this is a crime and I would want that person punished, i.e. go to jail even. Maybe he has been cheating on her then if that is the case, more fool her for putting up with it. I would have just “walked” and not batter an eye. If he really did beat her then he has actually committed a crime and not only should he lose his reputation but should at least end up in court. But since we don’t know the true facts, its hard to say.
hi pineapple,
It might be easy for us to say just report the culprit to the police and let the police to punish him but when people are deeply inlove, they tend to lose themselves in the relationship, thus leading them to do stupid things such as suicides, being a love fool, too blind to see the actual problem etc.
If Theresa really loves Him alot and is willing to take him back despite his cheating behind her back not only once, Theresa must be truly inloves with Him. Maybe Theresa can’t convinced HIm to just loves her only, so she ended up making things worse for Him like destroying his career for example.
agree with u veejay…
wen some1 deeply in love,hhaaizz..when there is physical abuse, wont report to the police..:_(
im glad terressa spoke up!!
at least other gals dat Him pursuing now will have a second thought before accepting him!!!
This shows that Theresa isn’t that smart of a girl and is very emotional. She just follows her emotions to revenge without thinking that what she’s doing isn’t gonna affect Him, but is destroying her own career. It backfired. The company isn’t going to sit down and watch Theresa making her own move to destroy Him who’s bringing the money home, so Filmko destroy Theresa first.
Personally i think the reason people who side with either Him ot teresa is they like the person they are siding with or are jealous of the one they are siding against. you cant side with anyone as you dont know either person that is just fanism
I don’t watch this 2 actors series much so I don’t know anything about them except seeing him Law in minor roles.
But hitting a woman is wrong, here in USA do not hit anyone. Even if the person you hit don’t press charges on you, but if the police saw bruises and marks on their body, the police will press charges on you. You be out to court and possible go to jail.
I don’t think any man should hit a woman. If there argument, differences, just move on, dump her, no need physical hitting.
Well I strongly disagree of men hitting women as they know that the women are always not as strong as them. Therefore they feel the power and it is a coward’s way of solving problems.
think of TOT where the girl went crazy on “fat guy” LOL
Hypothetical question. If the woman was hysterical? Man or woman, I would slap her to wake her up. The hitting here is punching, kicking, throwing.. grabbing, squeezing the neck, etc
Agree w/ Funn… how does it get to the point where there are bruises on her legs? I think he went too far.. there is no excuse for that.
These two are getting really annoying. Never knew what girls saw in Him Law; sure, he’s got a great body but so do plenty of Korean actors who also have better faces than Him. Theresa is just a pretty face and it’s sad that both are now known for this kind of news instead of their careers. Him’s a tool and Theresa is also questionable in her motives.
Well, Theresa sounds like the clingy type to me anyways. I’m pretty sure Him Law had at one point beat her, but I don’t think it’s to the extent to how Theresa claimed it was. And I Him two-timing is believable, but four-timing? How can the reporters not catch that?
And Him and Mandy Wong have impeccable chemistry, however, they don’t seem like they’re dating to me.
“And I Him two-timing is believable, but four-timing? How can the reporters not catch that?”
I agree. Was Him and Theresa’s relationship out in the open and everyone knew about it? The first time I heard of their news was back in December, if I remember correctly. I didn’t know they were dating earlier. But if everyone knew about Him and Theresa dating, why would a girl in the showbiz through herself at him? Not afraid of ruining her image for being a third party? Or she isn’t famous enough to care about her image? And why aren’t these other parties revealed by the media?
I really hope it’s not Mandy Wong. If I remember correctly, they were only in Suspects in Love, right? I didn’t finish the series, but I don’t see the impeccable chemistry between them. Mandy seems to have ambition and I doubt she would want to ruin her career to be dating right now. She will have a prominent role in the new series, 36 Hours on Call.
*throw herself at him
Chriselle,
In yesterday’s Oriental Daily paper, they speculated that Him may have been involved with his former “Marriage With A Liar” co-star, “E-Cup” Carol.
In the film, Carol and Him filmed a topless scene together (although no critical points were revealed).
No mention of Mandy Wong in the press yet. I find her to be a a serious actress, although I am not too certain about her real life personality. Career wise, I think she wants to aim a lot higher and work to leading lady status at TVB. IMO, I don’t think she would risk having a side affair with Him.
“why would a girl in the showbiz through herself at him? Not afraid of ruining her image for being a third party?”
Lust should be a powerful enough motivator. Same reason why Him slept with so many women at the same time. Lust….
I too agree it would not be Mandy Wong. If you follow her on weibo, her personality kinda shows she is not that close to male costars. the closest she seems it to be with the Chau twins. She seemed pretty shy when she was acting opposite Vincent Wong and Him Law in both series….. so i totally do not think its her..
highly likely its Carol Yeung and these new MHks who just want a short fling possibly.
I agree that Theresa might have exaggerated the matter.
I highly doubt it’s Mandy Wong. She seems to be serious, mature, and focused on her career and I don’t think she would risk that by getting involved with Him.
I doubt it’s Mandy Wong too. She’s serious and look like someone who doesn’t play around
I don’t believe a man hitting a woman, makes him a monster and yeah women aren’t completely defenseless. Let’s say, what if a physically stronger and well built woman was beating up a smaller built man? Would that be fair? Some women do need a slap when they get too hysterical and start throwing things. They mean to cause harm too, but just because they can’t aim doesn’t make them less guilty.
Going back to Teresa and Him, both may have been physically violent with each other during arguments however, since the label “love rat” isn’t enough to tarnish his name, “violent bully” will probably do a lot more damage as we tend to side with victims in violent relationships as
“violence is always wrong”.